I'm 23. Have a great job, lots of ambitions. I'm not the best looking guy by far, and I definately have my flaws but I make up for it in alot of other ways. Women don't flock to me, but I've never had too much trouble meeting them. I have been in about 4 serious relationships each lasting 8-16 months in the last 5 years. I guess I'm undecided about LTR's. I don't prefer them..but I always seem to be finding myelf in them. So I'm going on 6 months of being single. Definately a personal record..and i think I needed it too. It's introduced me to "casual dating". The thing is... I'm not sure I like it too much. I've dated 4 girls in the last 6 months, and honestly I've failed to keep any of them around for more than a month.
My last breakup was bad. Lived tother, had a dog.. etc. She really did a number on me and it was a rough rough breakup. Defnately left me a bit scarred. So maybe these girls see my despeation, and end up just runing? I dunno. And it scks because it's like a snowball effect... the rebound girl screws me over then the rebound rebound girl leaves me high and dry. Honestly I'm just at a point where my confidece is at 0, and not being able to hold on to these girls despite being able to do it with ease the last 5 years has me qustioning myself. What you guys think I need to do to get back on track?
My last breakup was bad. Lived tother, had a dog.. etc. She really did a number on me and it was a rough rough breakup. Defnately left me a bit scarred. So maybe these girls see my despeation, and end up just runing? I dunno. And it scks because it's like a snowball effect... the rebound girl screws me over then the rebound rebound girl leaves me high and dry. Honestly I'm just at a point where my confidece is at 0, and not being able to hold on to these girls despite being able to do it with ease the last 5 years has me qustioning myself. What you guys think I need to do to get back on track?