What advice would you give this guy?

[Ugandan Knuckles]

Do you know da way to help this guy? This is Marshall Mathers the 4th and he’s 23 and has never had a job and claims that its useless to even look for one since there aren’t any in the rural area where he lives, he’s also a high school dropout who refuses to even get his GED because he hates the educational system and views it as a waste of time. He also doesn’t have a car or driver’s license, and he’s a kissless virgin but only wants a girl who’s never smoked, gotten drunk, used drugs, or given a bl0wjob because he thinks that smoking, drinking, drug use, and giving or receiving oral are some of the most disgusting and degrading things there is. What do you guys think? I feel like he needs to get more positivity and stop feeling so sorry for himself, his perception of sex also needs to evolve as well in addition to not judging people so harshly for choosing to drink or use drugs.

Here’s some of his videos:

 

[Billtx49]

He needs to focus on reality instead of his ingrained life failure mode. Education sucks, employment also, Plus no need for a car without those…
If his story is true, which I don’t believe, he needs some serious professional Psych help or he’s just another future inmate waiting for his entry ticket…

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lmao...people lile this crack me up. They take pride in being losers. Unbelievable.

 

[Ugandan Knuckles]

I agree, he just has such a whiny and defeatist attitude about everything, so he’s unwilling to put any effort into improving his life. He’s basically living a self fulfilling prophecy and nothing will improve for him unless he gets out of his own way.

 

[deadmasterx]

16 years old girls are already giving *******s, he gotta be more realistic. This perception that most men have that women should be angels on earth, keeping themselves 'pure' waiting for their white knight to come and save them is ****ing bull****. I bet it's easier to find virgin men than virgin girls these days, and the numbers will probably get way worse if you consider any sexual activity such as *******s.
The best part is that most of these guys take pride on being virgins because they are somehow defending a dumb "morality" that they think it's right. Let's just be honest, every guy wants to **** the school/college/workplace hottie, no matter if she's a slut or not. Nobody cares about that. The difference is that these guys would rather throw the blame of their pitiful sexual life on women (by classifying as sluts who can't see his value) than realising that they don't go after what they want and what they want is extremely hard to find.
Don't get me wrong, there's nothing bad about being a virgin, choosing to wait till you find someone you trust and have feelings for to lose it. The problem is when you put consciously extremely big walls between you and what you want, so then you can justify your own failure.

 

[metalwater]

did not watch the vid, but from the op comment and others I would suggest they guy join one of the strict religions. (not trying to break some forum rule..) some of those are very complete and the men in those will straighten him out in a way that he can understand. there is a cost... but maybe in this case worth it. he could end up happy that way.

 

[Machine10033]

Do you know this guy.... he seems like the type that wouldn’t even take constructive advice. There are plenty of young guys out there that are looking for mentors and good advice. This dude is a cancer.... I would avoid him because all he would do is raise my blood pressure to unhealthy levels... he chose his doomer destiny and it’s no one else’s fault.

 

[Ugandan Knuckles]

16 years old girls are already giving *******s, he gotta be more realistic. This perception that most men have that women should be angels on earth, keeping themselves 'pure' waiting for their white knight to come and save them is ****ing bull****. I bet it's easier to find virgin men than virgin girls these days, and the numbers will probably get way worse if you consider any sexual activity such as *******s.
The best part is that most of these guys take pride on being virgins because they are somehow defending a dumb "morality" that they think it's right. Let's just be honest, every guy wants to **** the school/college/workplace hottie, no matter if she's a slut or not. Nobody cares about that. The difference is that these guys would rather throw the blame of their pitiful sexual life on women (by classifying as sluts who can't see his value) than realising that they don't go after what they want and what they want is extremely hard to find.
Don't get me wrong, there's nothing bad about being a virgin, choosing to wait till you find someone you trust and have feelings for to lose it. The problem is when you put consciously extremely big walls between you and what you want, so then you can justify your own failure.

I completely agree, he has better odds finding a needle in a haystack than he does finding a girl in his age group who has never given a bl0wjob, and there’s definitely more virgin men than virgin women these days, hence the incel community and the fact that dating apps have become so widely used has probably contributed to it, at least to some degree. What’s interesting about this guy is that he both takes pride in being a virgin by not going for the “sluts” who suck d*ck, but beats himself up over it at the same time and says that it makes him such a pathetic loser. I think part of the reason why that’s the case with him is because he puts sex on a pedestal, I remember one video he posted where he basically said that he holds sex to a very high standard and it should be seen as a deeply bonding and beautiful thing, and is not something to be had casually with people you aren’t committed to. So I think you’re spot on when you said that he’s putting extremely big walls between him and what he wants by claiming to be of such high morality and by putting sex on a pedestal and holding it to such a high standard. He really needs to stop trying to take the moral high ground because most people get annoyed when someone does that, and he really needs to take sex off the pedestal he put it on too.

 

[Ugandan Knuckles]

Do you know this guy.... he seems like the type that wouldn’t even take constructive advice. There are plenty of young guys out there that are looking for mentors and good advice. This dude is a cancer.... I would avoid him because all he would do is raise my blood pressure to unhealthy levels... he chose his doomer destiny and it’s no one else’s fault.

No I don’t know him personally, I have talked with him over YouTube a couple times though. I think you’re right, I’ve seen several people other than me try and give him advice in the comments section of his videos and he shoots down pretty much all of the advice given to him. They say there are some people who are just too happy being unhappy to ever make a change in their lives and it seems like he could be one of those people.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

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No I don’t know him personally, I have talked with him over YouTube a couple times though. I think you’re right, I’ve seen several people other than me try and give him advice in the comments section of his videos and he shoots down pretty much all of the advice given to him. They say there are some people who are just too happy being unhappy to ever make a change in their lives and it seems like he could be one of those people.

They find comfort in their negativity. That way they can always be right.

 

[Billtx49]

I’ve seen several people other than me try and give him advice in the comments section of his videos and he shoots down pretty much all of the advice given to him.

They say there are some people who are just too happy being unhappy to ever make a change in their lives

Well you’ve uncovered a Youtube attention troll, or he can’t be bothered to consider that his future is what he makes it… Either way they’re both a pitiful personal mental situation to be in and he needs some psych help.

 

[Ugandan Knuckles]

Yep, hopefully he comes to his senses and realizes that and gets the psych help he needs, otherwise he should just quit complaining and expecting people to feel sorry for him because it seems like a lot of the problems he has are self inflicted so he’s the only one who can solve them. He’s a lost cause if he’s unwilling to put in the effort to invest in himself through self improvement and work toward a better life for himself.

 

[zekko]

16 years old girls are already giving *******s, he gotta be more realistic. This perception that most men have that women should be angels on earth, keeping themselves 'pure' waiting for their white knight to come and save them is ****ing bull****.

Yeah, and these same guys will get angry because those same girls don't put out on the same date.