"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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What advice would give this poor guy?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Being tall isn't going to magically cure your lack of social skills and turn you into Leonardo Dicaprio
 
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Agree with hank, no one especially girls likes b1tchiness and victim mentality. If you have lack of something, man the fvck up and work on yourself.
 
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Being really tall doesn´t help either as you frigging bump your head into doors and other stuff.
It all about perspective and you mentality towards life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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His biggest problem isn't being short, his problem is that he has a victim mentality. I once went out with a friend and two Brazilian girls. The guy was good looking and he had a much better job than me, dressed well and spoke good Portuguese. At some point we were dancing with the girls and he said to one of them "if I was taller I would ask you out". Needless to say...
 
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bat soup said:
At some point we were dancing with the girls and he said to one of them "if I was taller I would ask you out"
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Talking about shooting yourself in the foot...
Why do some guys do this?
 
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Being short sure is an dis-advantage that prevents him from achieving certain goals that taller guys would have less problems to achieve, but it does not 100% account for 100% of his failure. So I'd advice him to hit the gym, eat healthy, read more books, ditch social media and work on himself more aka channeling his energy inwards instead of outwards.
 
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Being short didn't ruin his life.

Believing that being short ruined his life did.

You create outcomes for yourself based on your beliefs and behaviors, not the other way around.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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