"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What advice to give brother?

Jack_Hustle

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I've been on this site on 3 different accounts, none that really posted, since 8th grade. I'm a senior now, and truly evolved from a ***** to a pretty decent DJ.




Here's the dilemma:

My brother is shy, doesn't go out really on weekends, and probably is a bit socially awkward. He is a 2 sport athlete, but isn't popular (lol I sound like such a douche)

But anyway, cheerleaders have told me he is hot, cute, etc, and one of the most attractive said she had a crush on him. He doesn't know any of them, and they're all older or his age, sophomore.




I know he could be successful, but I'm not sure what to tell him?
Where do I start?
Because options are there if he puts a tad bit of effort into it.
We aren't crazy close so this is going to come off weird.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jack_Hustle

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Definitely. Feel bad for the kid, mainly for putting up with my **** and that he has a lot of potential.

I think I will base something off the first part of your plan, just the mall is weak around here. I think I will follow the rest very similarly. I don't think its ****y, I think I'm decently good looking, 6-8 depending on the girl pov.
 

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Help him get out of his shell. Show him he has no reason to be shy, make him talk to people, and help him grow into a successful DJ.
 
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