"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What advice to give brother?

Jack_Hustle

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I've been on this site on 3 different accounts, none that really posted, since 8th grade. I'm a senior now, and truly evolved from a ***** to a pretty decent DJ.




Here's the dilemma:

My brother is shy, doesn't go out really on weekends, and probably is a bit socially awkward. He is a 2 sport athlete, but isn't popular (lol I sound like such a douche)

But anyway, cheerleaders have told me he is hot, cute, etc, and one of the most attractive said she had a crush on him. He doesn't know any of them, and they're all older or his age, sophomore.




I know he could be successful, but I'm not sure what to tell him?
Where do I start?
Because options are there if he puts a tad bit of effort into it.
We aren't crazy close so this is going to come off weird.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jack_Hustle

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Definitely. Feel bad for the kid, mainly for putting up with my **** and that he has a lot of potential.

I think I will base something off the first part of your plan, just the mall is weak around here. I think I will follow the rest very similarly. I don't think its ****y, I think I'm decently good looking, 6-8 depending on the girl pov.
 

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Help him get out of his shell. Show him he has no reason to be shy, make him talk to people, and help him grow into a successful DJ.
 
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