Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What accent is sexiest?

Evil_Muska

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I'm currently at work (I do tech support), and I just got off the phone with a woman who had an amazing British accent. The entire time, I was just eating up everything she said like candy just because I find the British/Australian accent absurdly attractive. It isn't just the accent either, it's also how they word everything different (saying stuff like "Lovely" and "bugger" and "cheers", ect).
It got me thinking...

What accents drive you guys crazy and why?
 

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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Italian & maybe French if not too thick, also love British
 

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There is something very sexy about women with southern accents. Maybe it's because it brings us back to a time when women had not been brainwashed yet by feminism. It just sounds humble, feminine for that reason.

I'd take the accent of a poor southern woman living in a trailer park than some uptight female doctor from the big city any day.
 

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f283000 said:
There is something very sexy about women with southern accents. Maybe it's because it brings us back to a time when women had not been brainwashed yet by feminism. It just sounds humble, feminine for that reason.

I'd take the accent of a poor southern woman living in a trailer park than some uptight female doctor from the big city any day.
Right on. Southern and british accents are very sexy.
 

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SexxiKing777 said:
I'm glad YOU find it sexy, cuz I sure as hell don't, lol.
I guess it's because I speak with Asian women on the phone at work all the time, and it's really hard to understand them sometimes because of their accent, which is frustrating as hell, haha.
 

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Only one... French oh la la ....
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my fiancee has a very thick british accent and it still very much turns me on. i can just sit and listen to her talk all night.

and nothing beats having sex with a british woman talking dirty to you
 

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"and nothing beats having sex with a british woman talking dirty to you" - backbreaker

*yawns and leans back* I get it all the time (I am from the UK lol)

Accents have never really been a big thing for me except maybe this one girl, Finnish she was, now SHE had a sexy accent.
 

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Suprised on one's mentioned the Irish. It's sure as hell's my pick!
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Irish, Australian, and Eastern European. Something about broken English really gives me a semi.
 

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I like girls with cute British accents. British is cute, but I wouldn't say "sexy". French is sexy. Portuguese is definitely sexy...nothing like a hot Brazilian girl speaking in what sounds like a cross between French and Spanish.

A girl with a southern bell accent can be very sexy and cute, as long as it's the refined southern accent and not the hillbilly version with the drawl. Southern U.S. accents are overlooked, but when done right are damn sexy.

Btw, good looking British women are usually eastern European immigrants. ;)
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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