"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What accent is sexiest?

Evil_Muska

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I'm currently at work (I do tech support), and I just got off the phone with a woman who had an amazing British accent. The entire time, I was just eating up everything she said like candy just because I find the British/Australian accent absurdly attractive. It isn't just the accent either, it's also how they word everything different (saying stuff like "Lovely" and "bugger" and "cheers", ect).
It got me thinking...

What accents drive you guys crazy and why?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yuppaz

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Italian & maybe French if not too thick, also love British
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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f283000

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There is something very sexy about women with southern accents. Maybe it's because it brings us back to a time when women had not been brainwashed yet by feminism. It just sounds humble, feminine for that reason.

I'd take the accent of a poor southern woman living in a trailer park than some uptight female doctor from the big city any day.
 

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f283000 said:
There is something very sexy about women with southern accents. Maybe it's because it brings us back to a time when women had not been brainwashed yet by feminism. It just sounds humble, feminine for that reason.

I'd take the accent of a poor southern woman living in a trailer park than some uptight female doctor from the big city any day.
Right on. Southern and british accents are very sexy.
 

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SexxiKing777 said:
I'm glad YOU find it sexy, cuz I sure as hell don't, lol.
I guess it's because I speak with Asian women on the phone at work all the time, and it's really hard to understand them sometimes because of their accent, which is frustrating as hell, haha.
 

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Only one... French oh la la ....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my fiancee has a very thick british accent and it still very much turns me on. i can just sit and listen to her talk all night.

and nothing beats having sex with a british woman talking dirty to you
 

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"and nothing beats having sex with a british woman talking dirty to you" - backbreaker

*yawns and leans back* I get it all the time (I am from the UK lol)

Accents have never really been a big thing for me except maybe this one girl, Finnish she was, now SHE had a sexy accent.
 

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Suprised on one's mentioned the Irish. It's sure as hell's my pick!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Irish, Australian, and Eastern European. Something about broken English really gives me a semi.
 

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I like girls with cute British accents. British is cute, but I wouldn't say "sexy". French is sexy. Portuguese is definitely sexy...nothing like a hot Brazilian girl speaking in what sounds like a cross between French and Spanish.

A girl with a southern bell accent can be very sexy and cute, as long as it's the refined southern accent and not the hillbilly version with the drawl. Southern U.S. accents are overlooked, but when done right are damn sexy.

Btw, good looking British women are usually eastern European immigrants. ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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