"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What about to do about this *****?

confuseid

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Whats up guys, this is my first post, and hopefully it'll begin a series of posts that will enhance my game so I can help yall with yours.
To give you a little background, I live in Northern Virginia right now, and Fairfax County (where I live) is extraordinarily rich. These girls are the most stuck-up *****es i've met. There's one in my 7th period (I have it every day) that is obviously just a *****. Now I don't know if this is just a continuous ***** shield or it's her personality. She's about a...hrm....HB7, but it's not really about getting her. I just can't stand the fact that this girl thinks she can just ignore me. So lately I've been pretending she doesn't exist, just to not look at her and follow the pattern of all the other guys. I'm not shy at all, and not a nerd or geek in the least (But I sympathize with yall that are there's nothing wrong with it, you just need to fix it.) But the thing is, if I approach her I can talk to her for a little and I know my game will keep her attention, but what I'm afraid of is...running out of damn material. I don't want to sit there and just keep running the same lame ESP **** and stuff. And I certainly cannot run anything serious, such as Style's evolution phase shift...
(speak of style, I bought his book The Game on sunday, and have just finished it today. It was a good read. I'm really curious about the October Man Sequence.
Getting back on topic, anybody know what I should do? I don't wanna mess this up because if I don't get a number close at least, then it will lower my social reputation. And I plan on being homecoming King next year (Senior Year). I wanna shoot outta the blue and steal that damn ugly crown. How should I tackle this *****?

-Finesse
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How does she act like a b-i-t-c-h? Give me an example and ill have a come back...
 

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she acts snobbish, the way she walks, talks, and behaves in general. there's nothing really specific since she always gets her way and ****. i ran a routine or two on some girls today and they turned out lame. they smiled after i did it, but none of the damn effects i wanted. I want to know the DAMN october man sequence, I want to learn damn NLP, I want to damn hypnotize them. How do I do this ****? I can study routines and openers all I want but what i'm doing isn't working. And the whole "Don't think of me too much" closer when I have to leave isn't really coming back at me with good effects...they just say, "Don't worry. I won't"
-Finesse
 

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Neg her. Neg every single thing about her that you can until she chills out. Show her you have a spine and that youre not gonna take her crap.
 

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Yeah I was thinking that...but before I can neg her, don't I need to open her? I have nothing to open her, she won't work off normal material. I need something exclusively for *****es. haha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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