"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What about to do about this *****?

confuseid

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Whats up guys, this is my first post, and hopefully it'll begin a series of posts that will enhance my game so I can help yall with yours.
To give you a little background, I live in Northern Virginia right now, and Fairfax County (where I live) is extraordinarily rich. These girls are the most stuck-up *****es i've met. There's one in my 7th period (I have it every day) that is obviously just a *****. Now I don't know if this is just a continuous ***** shield or it's her personality. She's about a...hrm....HB7, but it's not really about getting her. I just can't stand the fact that this girl thinks she can just ignore me. So lately I've been pretending she doesn't exist, just to not look at her and follow the pattern of all the other guys. I'm not shy at all, and not a nerd or geek in the least (But I sympathize with yall that are there's nothing wrong with it, you just need to fix it.) But the thing is, if I approach her I can talk to her for a little and I know my game will keep her attention, but what I'm afraid of is...running out of damn material. I don't want to sit there and just keep running the same lame ESP **** and stuff. And I certainly cannot run anything serious, such as Style's evolution phase shift...
(speak of style, I bought his book The Game on sunday, and have just finished it today. It was a good read. I'm really curious about the October Man Sequence.
Getting back on topic, anybody know what I should do? I don't wanna mess this up because if I don't get a number close at least, then it will lower my social reputation. And I plan on being homecoming King next year (Senior Year). I wanna shoot outta the blue and steal that damn ugly crown. How should I tackle this *****?

-Finesse
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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How does she act like a b-i-t-c-h? Give me an example and ill have a come back...
 

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she acts snobbish, the way she walks, talks, and behaves in general. there's nothing really specific since she always gets her way and ****. i ran a routine or two on some girls today and they turned out lame. they smiled after i did it, but none of the damn effects i wanted. I want to know the DAMN october man sequence, I want to learn damn NLP, I want to damn hypnotize them. How do I do this ****? I can study routines and openers all I want but what i'm doing isn't working. And the whole "Don't think of me too much" closer when I have to leave isn't really coming back at me with good effects...they just say, "Don't worry. I won't"
-Finesse
 

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Neg her. Neg every single thing about her that you can until she chills out. Show her you have a spine and that youre not gonna take her crap.
 

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Yeah I was thinking that...but before I can neg her, don't I need to open her? I have nothing to open her, she won't work off normal material. I need something exclusively for *****es. haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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