What about girls chasing you?

[AcerGuild]

Do you guys really like when a chick is chasing you, sending those 'sweet' texts that girls send, making the calls and stuff? Do you like that girl better, the one who lets you know how much she likes you? The girl who gives you lots of attention. You know the ones I mean. Not like begging - I really hate that - but the girl who lets you know she's thinking about you a lot..

I still feel like i like a girl better when I've had to work for her..the ones that are too easy or too affectionate or show me too much attention, I just don't go for those so much. Guess that's my AFC way..

 

[AAAgent]

When i want a relationship i'd prefer to chase and win the girl over. if the girl is chasing me imagine how many other guys she's hounded down and fvcked. Atleast that's how i think. I had to choose before, between a fine ass chick that was in love with me, or the chick i was chasing at the time who was maybe a 6. the fine chick was like a 8.5. i chose the chick i was chasing because i guess she felt like more of a prize to me. In the end both were bad choices. there was actually a 3rd one but she was like last choice. 8.5 had an std, and 6.5 was fvcking bpd. the 3rd choice was a girl cheating on her bf with me and some other guys.

 

[xectxny19x]

i'd prefer a nice balance if that's possible.

i had a girl who was very affectionate and cute as heck. but her knowing info. on me that i remember not telling her creeped me out, and i had to break it.

the other girl, on the hand, was too aloof.

i was attracted to both, and they were hard to let go off.

 

[WC2]

I definitely prefer when a woman is chasing me.

And let me make this clear: I will not chase a woman. Any woman for that matter...

'I don't chasem' I replacem'

There's too many out there to chase down one girl. I also look way back in the past at when I used to 'chase' women and 'please' them.. you know what? It always had negative consequences. Whenever I've let a woman chase me, she's come on strong no matter what f*cked up sh!t I've done. I'm like her drug, she'll take me even if that means wronging her friends and family. A damn shame

I've been living happily for the past few years having women chase me around. It's a good feeling to turn down a woman when she asks to hang out simply because you've just been seeing too many women lately. Sure, they eventually drop due to frustration, however trust me they drop MUCH quicker if you're chasing them. Either way, there's plenty of fish in the sea. Chasing is indeed a losing man's game and isn't like seen in the movies AT ALL.

 

[WhtRbt]

It's always best to let the women chase you.

 

[MisterMcGee]

You need to chase a little bit. Girls will give up for the same reasons guys will give up. Of course, if you have a huge harem then you shouldn't care about girls who give up, but for most of us I think we shouldn't be too proud to chase a girl a little bit.

 

[tmac15]

Alright fellas maybe i'm missing the point here about chasing. Clarifying for me with examples of her chasing? Do you guys mean after you get the number close and show interest then become indifferent(building the initial attraction)? Once your in a relationship does the chasing stop?

I'm in a new/exclusive relationship for about 7 weeks now. We hangout 2-3 times a week, have gotten s** 7 times. We call and talk every night. I want her to become more invested, and do some chasing. Give me some pointers?
When does it become mutual the chasing (after s**)?

 

[AcerGuild]

Hey tmac15, I'm generally talking about after the first date onwards.

If you're calling your chick every night I think (but what the fvck do I know?) that you're lowering your value and she'll get bored soon. you need to up your game - it's all too easy for her.

 

[r0cky]

Alright fellas maybe i'm missing the point here about chasing. Clarifying for me with examples of her chasing? Do you guys mean after you get the number close and show interest then become indifferent(building the initial attraction)? Once your in a relationship does the chasing stop?

I'm in a new/exclusive relationship for about 7 weeks now. We hangout 2-3 times a week, have gotten s** 7 times. We call and talk every night. I want her to become more invested, and do some chasing. Give me some pointers?
When does it become mutual the chasing (after s**)?

A good way to get the girl more invested is by having better things in your life. Even doing things that are not really more interesting than her are good, the idea is to make her believe that they are.
This is parallel to having abundancy of girls, if a girl knows that you have more prospects, and that she can be quickly replaced, she will do more to get your attention.

 

[r0cky]

Hey tmac15, I'm generally talking about after the first date onwards.

If you're calling your chick every night I think (but what the fvck do I know?) that you're lowering your value and she'll get bored soon. you need to up your game - it's all too easy for her.

Not if the convo is interesting.

 

[DonJuan11]

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I still feel like i like a girl better when I've had to work for her..the ones that are too easy or too affectionate or show me too much attention, I just don't go for those so much.

You mean they are not hot enough for you to go for. If Megan Fox showed you attention don't tell me you wouldn't be all over that.

Guess that's my AFC way..

It's usually the ones that aren't very good looking give more attention because they have to. The laws of life...