"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what a ***** ;)

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so I know this girl who I happen to meet every few weeks and so, and sometimes have sex (once every few months when we are alone and bored)..

anyway, yesterday she was drunk and told me too much information about her sex life.. she has a LTR which has lasted for over 4 years now and as she counted, she screwed 6-7 different guys this year alone.

she is 24.. do u guys this this normal behaviour for a female (hp9.5 or even 10) ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No, I don't think this is "normal" for a female in an LTR. If she wants to play the field she should just get out of her relationship
 

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Either she's really a "*****"

But what is she just hasn't found a man that can REALLY satisfy her yet? If she did, she'd be glued to him like hell. (Common sence here).

And if she had that guy, I dunno why would she be going around so many others when one will do... amirite? :p
 

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who am i to judge?

I think guys are quick to cast the stone, but look at your life first....
When I was with my x, I screwed around on her, something i'm not proud off . But I realized if I really like someone then I wouldn't hurt'em
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Acq said:
so I know this girl who I happen to meet every few weeks and so, and sometimes have sex (once every few months when we are alone and bored)..

anyway, yesterday she was drunk and told me too much information about her sex life.. she has a LTR which has lasted for over 4 years now and as she counted, she screwed 6-7 different guys this year alone.

she is 24.. do u guys this this normal behaviour for a female (hp9.5 or even 10) ?
Typical human female doing what human females do.. Nothing new..

90% of the girls i meet these days have boyfriends and guess what!? If they like me they dont tell me about him till after we F if they dont like me they tell me about him as soon as i make a move..LOL Its sad and funny..
 

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her logic is: her boyfriend can sexually satisfy her, he is good ****er, however he is poor and a loser.. u get the picture ;)
 

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Solomon said:
who am i to judge?

I think guys are quick to cast the stone, but look at your life first....
When I was with my x, I screwed around on her, something i'm not proud off . But I realized if I really like someone then I wouldn't hurt'em
exactly man great answer
 

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Last year i read a book on personality psychology. Drinking, drugs and promiscuity go together. If she drinks then she ****s around. Period.

I bet that she has depression issues.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so here is who she screws:

me (a FRIEND who knows how to talk to her)
some rich guy with a fast expensive bmw (who she hopes to hook up with)
her boss (who is also rich and she would like to hook up with him)
another friend like me
her BF
and I dont know who else

the girl is extremely hot and a real eye catcher
 
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