Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what a ***** ;)

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so I know this girl who I happen to meet every few weeks and so, and sometimes have sex (once every few months when we are alone and bored)..

anyway, yesterday she was drunk and told me too much information about her sex life.. she has a LTR which has lasted for over 4 years now and as she counted, she screwed 6-7 different guys this year alone.

she is 24.. do u guys this this normal behaviour for a female (hp9.5 or even 10) ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No, I don't think this is "normal" for a female in an LTR. If she wants to play the field she should just get out of her relationship
 
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Either she's really a "*****"

But what is she just hasn't found a man that can REALLY satisfy her yet? If she did, she'd be glued to him like hell. (Common sence here).

And if she had that guy, I dunno why would she be going around so many others when one will do... amirite? :p
 
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who am i to judge?

I think guys are quick to cast the stone, but look at your life first....
When I was with my x, I screwed around on her, something i'm not proud off . But I realized if I really like someone then I wouldn't hurt'em
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Acq said:
so I know this girl who I happen to meet every few weeks and so, and sometimes have sex (once every few months when we are alone and bored)..

anyway, yesterday she was drunk and told me too much information about her sex life.. she has a LTR which has lasted for over 4 years now and as she counted, she screwed 6-7 different guys this year alone.

she is 24.. do u guys this this normal behaviour for a female (hp9.5 or even 10) ?
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Typical human female doing what human females do.. Nothing new..

90% of the girls i meet these days have boyfriends and guess what!? If they like me they dont tell me about him till after we F if they dont like me they tell me about him as soon as i make a move..LOL Its sad and funny..
 
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her logic is: her boyfriend can sexually satisfy her, he is good ****er, however he is poor and a loser.. u get the picture ;)
 
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Solomon said:
who am i to judge?

I think guys are quick to cast the stone, but look at your life first....
When I was with my x, I screwed around on her, something i'm not proud off . But I realized if I really like someone then I wouldn't hurt'em
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exactly man great answer
 
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Last year i read a book on personality psychology. Drinking, drugs and promiscuity go together. If she drinks then she ****s around. Period.

I bet that she has depression issues.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so here is who she screws:

me (a FRIEND who knows how to talk to her)
some rich guy with a fast expensive bmw (who she hopes to hook up with)
her boss (who is also rich and she would like to hook up with him)
another friend like me
her BF
and I dont know who else

the girl is extremely hot and a real eye catcher
 
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