"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what a situation

JayCamx23

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ok i danced with this chick at the school dance on saturday. first off ive known her for a while. ok so she kind of initiated it. she just kinda grabbed my hands. so i ask, "so do you know how to dance?" she says, "yes!!". I say, "prove it" so she leads me to the middle of the floor and we grind. all is good until i try to help out my AFC friend. i give him an example of what to say and tell him to say what i said above. he wound up not dancing with anyone.

next day at basketball practice three of my friends, not close friends but friends say, "i heard about what happened last night." im like, "what are you talking about?" hes like, "your pickup line." i still have no idea what they talkin about. so i say, "what?". they say, "(name of friend) told me." now i remember and say," are you kidding me?". okay so turns out 2 more people walk into the locker room and question me. im thinking, what the hell is going on.
today i get to school and dont here anything til last period when some kid tell me that someone told him about it first period.

so here i am. this girl that ive worked my way seemingly all the way out of the friend zone. and im getting screwed by people.

lessons learned: dont trust anyone, even your closest friends and keep your fvckin mouth shut. should have considered that this kid has opened his mouth before like this and ive had to face the questions. not this bad tho.

i am looking for opinions on how to handle this and what to do if she hears about it. i sit next to her in one of my classes tomorrow and im preparing myself for her knowing about it.

my plan now is to play it low cuz it seems like all the mothafukkas being *****es about this are the ones that a.) didnt dance with anyone at the dance or b.) werent there at all. So im not goin to lower myself to their level. instead ill act like i dont even remember dancing with her when she asks me. i think im gonna take the i dont givva **** mentality.

could you guys give me some suggestions on how to handle this. it really is amazing how fast rumors spread when you see it all unfolding like this. WOW:cuss:
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not bad but you have plenty of room to improve. Granted your only 15, but she shouldnt have even had to come up to you.

Plus why didnt you close on this, if your grinding, you should have asked and been like do you do this with all the guys, or only ones as good looking as me. She is forced to say yes, or concede that your that good looking and more likely she is going to concede. Then be like hey your pretty good at this, but I dont know I think i am having an off night, how bout you give me your number, and I will come over and we can practice sometime(big smile.)

So I wouldnt go off calling yourself this master DJ, but it is a good start, I like the prove it line though. As far as helping your AFC friend, its going to be tough not many 15 y/o's know what the heck they are doing and even if they are told what to do they still f' it up.
 

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ya its really not worth helping him out. just kind of felt bad. :rolleyes:
 

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what kind of dance was it?? like a winter formal or something or likee.. jr prom?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well turns out the whole team knows now. how annoying is this?!!

anyway she was not in school today
 
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