"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What a night

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Well this Saturday night I went out with a few friends to a bar/lounge. I have been reading a lot about DJing for a while now but I never could see how some of this stuff worked, until now (social value, and hot chick articles I am referring too). I have never had problems with women since a little kid, life has been treating me well. Seems something has finally stumped me. Walked into the bar/lounge knew a lot of people inside, got my social value up that way, occasional smile to some ladies, etc. etc.
Anyways my friend introduces me to a girl that is so smoking all the guys are drooling. I begin conversation with her and it seems we hit it off, I was waiting for the night to end to finally ask her number when out of the BLUE she says "BTW what is your number?" - This has never happened to me, maybe in my teenage years but I wasnt expecting this hot chick to ask for my number, I thought I would have to work for it.

Im a little confused though..
She has to be into me to ask for my number right??
Should I initiate the call? She said she would msg me this week..
How long should I wait before calling her?
I answered these questions by myself, but I would love some input on this.
Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes.
Yes. Take the ball out of her court. Take the initiative.
Give it a couple days. 3-4 is what I usually go for. Works for me.
 

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Yeah, I was thinking about Wednesday night. How about if you she doesn't text me? I would think the game changes.
 

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Called her tonight, she didn't pick up, left one of my lammest msg's of all time like a newbie.
She replies with a SMS grrrrrrr ... she said she would call and she wants to meet up. Wtf is up with this sms bull****. I am european but I live in the US now, in Europe they worship sms cause its cheap, anyways just an update.
 
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