Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What a night

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Well this Saturday night I went out with a few friends to a bar/lounge. I have been reading a lot about DJing for a while now but I never could see how some of this stuff worked, until now (social value, and hot chick articles I am referring too). I have never had problems with women since a little kid, life has been treating me well. Seems something has finally stumped me. Walked into the bar/lounge knew a lot of people inside, got my social value up that way, occasional smile to some ladies, etc. etc.
Anyways my friend introduces me to a girl that is so smoking all the guys are drooling. I begin conversation with her and it seems we hit it off, I was waiting for the night to end to finally ask her number when out of the BLUE she says "BTW what is your number?" - This has never happened to me, maybe in my teenage years but I wasnt expecting this hot chick to ask for my number, I thought I would have to work for it.

Im a little confused though..
She has to be into me to ask for my number right??
Should I initiate the call? She said she would msg me this week..
How long should I wait before calling her?
I answered these questions by myself, but I would love some input on this.
Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes.
Yes. Take the ball out of her court. Take the initiative.
Give it a couple days. 3-4 is what I usually go for. Works for me.
 

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Yeah, I was thinking about Wednesday night. How about if you she doesn't text me? I would think the game changes.
 

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Called her tonight, she didn't pick up, left one of my lammest msg's of all time like a newbie.
She replies with a SMS grrrrrrr ... she said she would call and she wants to meet up. Wtf is up with this sms bull****. I am european but I live in the US now, in Europe they worship sms cause its cheap, anyways just an update.
 
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