What a girl just said to me about sleeping with her male friend

[The_Reaper]

"Me and my best friend, a guy, have slept together. But not because we were sexually or romantically attracted to each other, but because we were very comfortable with each other, so we decided to go for it"

(i.e. shagged him)

Your thoughts?

I have slept with this girl once before.
I might ask her a follow up question casually next time I talk to her (online), to see if they slept together many times, how they felt after, what about boyfriend and girlfriends, etc.

I find it interesting...

 

[Kal0051]

I need to ask, did you mean that they had sex or just slept in the same bed?

 

[horaholic]

A rare girl indeed. She would make a good 'friend,' and nothing more.

 

[Jitterbug]

Tell her she's a moron who doesn't make any sense.

Well, a lot of girls are like her.

I've slept with female friends who would not date me, but would fvck me at the right place & right time. It's like stress relief or mutual masturbation to them.

 

[horaholic]

I've slept with acquaintances like that (sort of friends) but never with a female FRIEND, friend.

 

[Jitterbug]

Yeah you're right, that's what I meant. I don't have female friends with the true meaning of the word "friend".

 

[The_Reaper]

I think it's......very annoying.

Some girls just need to feel like they have a special bond with someone, and they think sex will achieve that.

 

[scrouds]

Haha, another episode of the chick RDF (reality distortion field).

Tune in next week.

 

[Warrior74]

Check out this convo I had with a friend of a friend this afternoon. Mind you my coworker was sitting in my office and most of my statements are his words. I would have probably been a lot meaner and more honest with her about what I really thought.

3:28pmWarrior
even if it wasnt a date, you were going to have dinner with another guy...id be jealous and not to happy about it.

3:28pmInternetChic
why

3:29pmWarrior
why? why not? We are in a quasi-relationship and your going out with another guy...that would set off warning sirens for any guy in that situation.
is she shopping around? is she looking for someone else? why is she hanging out with him...
those types of thoughts would be going thru my head.

3:29pmInternetChic
because she's new in town and needs to make friends and typically despises chicks.

3:29pmWarrior
screw that.

3:29pmInternetChic
and because you're busy working on your own internal problems
it's your fault to begin with
or else i'd have gotten sushi with you.

3:30pmWarrior
that has no place in man logic, we don't believe in guy girl friendships unless one person (preferably the person not with our interest) is significantly ugly enough to be unthreatening
or gay.

3:32pmInternetChic
i'm bi?

3:33pmWarrior
the other guy..not you!

3:33pmInternetChic
tough fvcking shyt.
all my friends are guys.

3:34pmWarrior
thats always a red flag for me personally

3:34pmInternetChic
why

3:35pmWarrior
you know how guys are...

3:35pmInternetChic
not really.
i mean, i do
but i'm a tomboy
i don't do chicks.
i'll fvck chicks
but i barely even date the bytches.

3:36pmWarrior
them dudes are always orbiters, just circling until they can get up on it.

3:36pmInternetChic
and this is my fault?

3:37pmWarrior
nah..but if im dating you, i wouldn't like it.

3:37pmInternetChic
if you were dating me you'd have to be confident enough not to care.
because obviously, if i wanted to date one of them, i could.
but i'm not. i'm dating you.
i don't see the issue.

3:38pmWarrior
thats just not how the male mind operates. we don't see it that way.

3:39pmInternetChic
boys are dumb.

3:39pmWarrior
just being real. we see things yall dont see.

3:39pmInternetChic
you think i don't know that nearly all of my friends want to fvck me?
doesn't mean they want to date me.
the close ones know me too well to even be remotely interested.
this is why, when i'm not seeing someone, i fvck them.
gets it out of their system.

3:40pmWarrior throws hands in the air

LOL so she wants a guy who should be confident and can deal with the fact that she hangs out with a bunch of dudes that she fvcks when she's not in a relationship? ****ING RETARD. No wonder she can't find a man, she's a slut. Our good friend told me that she was a slut. She knows she's a slut and still just can't admit, she's a slut.

My boy wanted me to keep going, but I couldn't stand it anymore. I was biting my tongue the whole conversation. She's a good friend of a really good friend, so I left it at that. She wants to go out when she comes to town next month, and we are all suppose to hang out, it should be fun times. Fun times.

 

[Jitterbug]

I can bet that, in Warrior's example, the guys who fvck that chick aren't really her friends. They're just close to her to get some FB actions. I'm the same with the female "friends" I've banged. I'd care more about them than some random girls, sure, but they are not on the same friendship level as my close male friends. We may share fun times, but their (the girls') problems ain't my problems, whereas my boys know I've got their backs.

However, to those girls, their guy friends are real friends. Some are even considered close friends. It's not that hard. As long as you're not stabbing them in the back like their chick friends do (even the BFFs), you're a very damn good friend already!