"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

what a dic head

Clownpaint

Don Juan
Joined
May 27, 2005
Messages
19
Reaction score
0
Age
37
oh right, I'll boil it down

been hitting on a girl at school...
loads of negging (admittedly, little kino) ...
she laughed at everything I said and put my coat on for me and stuff like that etc...
on friday, I was kind of tired and had a **** day so I wasn't my usual effervescent self...
this afternoon (tuesday), she was in one of her precious, self-absorbed moods and instead of going with the flow and being fun likely she usually is, she resisted and twisted everything and turned it into a personal attack on her e.g.

Her: (openly) "Has anyone noticed anything different about him(pointing at me) ?"
Others on train:No, have you?/ what you saying? etc.
Her: Oh nothing
Me: (offhandedly, as I turn to look out the window) that's so annoying when girls do that (half smiling, half laughing)
Others: (agreed and laughed with me)
Her: Yeah that's right. I'm an attention-seeker, I'm annoying bla bla bla...

There was like silence for a few minutes before I said I'll take a guess at what she meant

Me: (Openly) I'm guessing it's because I'm new and in the first few weeks I was quiet and now I'm sitting here on top of the seat holding court, but that's just my judgement.

I then got off...

Now I'm stuck with what to do tomorrow...

I was thinking along the lines of the following:

1. calling her a **** head and punching her lights out like I wanted to (lol)

2. playing her games...pretending to be moody, only giving monosyllabic answers.

3. giving her a hug and telling her there's nothing to worry about or whatever and continue teasing her or whatever


many thanks in advance,

Donegan Buchanan
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Phat

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2005
Messages
382
Reaction score
1
Just Ignore her untill she starts trying to talk to you again.
 

Clownpaint

Don Juan
Joined
May 27, 2005
Messages
19
Reaction score
0
Age
37
UPDATE: I've just found out the following:

*she feels threatened by me because I made comments about Muslims and the way I said them was "vicious"
*I may have offended her
*Apparently, "I impose my views on other people" too.

So basically, she's scared of me.

Am I fcvked?
 

chill

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 27, 2004
Messages
116
Reaction score
0
Location
nor cal
sounds like she is actively trying to find flaws in you. if shes like this for much longer, i would move on and consider coming back later. or, on the other hand, you could tell her you dont hate muslims and clear that up. But as for the whole "imposing your views" cr*p, thats retarded. everybody has there ideas, and we openly state them. If you disagree, come up with a good reason. when people say stuff like that, they are either just being a b*tch, or cant think of a good reason to object to your idea, but they are pissed at you and want to disagree. As you can guess, that stuff really sets me off, so sorry.

personaly, if she doesnt improve, I would next her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top