A friend of mine recently got in trouble for excessive speeding. He is facing a misdemeanor and doesn't have the best driving record. I don't think he ever realised that he could get in this kind of trouble for driving fast. The truth is he's a good guy but a misdemeanor is on your record. If he is convicted he is worried about his future getting jobs. And also what girls would think. What would girls think about him if he had a misdemeanor on his recod. how could he feel confident around them?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what a bout a criminal record?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You loveshack idiot!! Quit polluting our forum with this crap!! If youre going to be posting sh!t like this, go back to LS with this sh!t!!sosilky said:
Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
LOL Misdemeanor doesn't go on your record...only if it is a serious A....but even then lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TRaffic infractions like that don't go on your criminal record. It wouldn't have any effect uness it was a job where you are a driver or unless it was a sensitive government postion. And even if you commited a misdemeanor that did go on you criminal record, the nature of the offense would be what mattered. Most misdemeaners aren't of that "negative" in nature.sosilky said:
."You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DWI is criminalized in most states. But what about it? No girls care if you had a dwi and most jobs don't either. Hit and run is criminalized, so is vehicular manslaughter, you're starting to act like a little kid here.sosilky said:
ketostix said:
sorry. its just that hes worried and the excessive speeding he did is a crime (130) and I guy I know did get a misdemeanor DWI but hes in college and the jobs hes looking for are a bigger deal then best buy. no they aren't serious crimes but i'm pretty sure it carries a record I guess I wondered how this would affect a womens opinion of you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude I f'd up in college and got a DWI. I landed a fantastic job afterwards. I've also landed another even better job when I left that job. The DWI 1st offense is usually expunged and 2nd offense is usually counted as the 1st offense. So, no problems, mate.
Start surrounding yourself with smarter friends. Sure people make mistakes. Just surround yourself from people who learn from them. If you can find friends that learn from other people's mistakes, you'll be doing even better.
Start surrounding yourself with smarter friends. Sure people make mistakes. Just surround yourself from people who learn from them. If you can find friends that learn from other people's mistakes, you'll be doing even better.
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