What’s with this girl?

[nicksaiz65]

Hey guys, I’m doing much better with women and the relationships in my life thanks to this site! However, there’s this one girl that’s confusing me.

At first, she was talking all crazy sexual to me and had a super high interest level. I made out with her, and she was grinding all over me. I know I should’ve fvcked her then, but for some reason I didn’t.

After that, her interest has been really hot and cold. So I’d ignore her, but she kept on texting me first and hitting me up. It happened over and over again! Talk about mixed signals. I asked her to hang out with me at a concert, and she was like “yeah but I may bring my best friend.” I concluded low interest and didn’t text her back. Yet she still keeps sliding in my DMs and when she talks to me, we talk like normal.

So my question is, what the heck do I do? Do I just ignore her and move on? I know I probably should(mixed signals = low interest) and I am spinning other plates, but honestly this girl is my favorite out of all of them. I know my mistake was probably not fvcking her that first time. Then again, she was asking me about a party we’re doing this week and she said she’ll show up.

Sosuavers, can you help me decide what to do about this?

 

[Young OG]

Hey guys, I’m doing much better with women and the relationships in my life thanks to this site! However, there’s this one girl that’s confusing me.

At first, she was talking all crazy sexual to me and had a super high interest level. I made out with her, and she was grinding all over me. I know I should’ve fvcked her then, but for some reason I didn’t.

After that, her interest has been really hot and cold. So I’d ignore her, but she kept on texting me first and hitting me up. It happened over and over again! Talk about mixed signals. I asked her to hang out with me at a concert, and she was like “yeah but I may bring my best friend.” I concluded low interest and didn’t text her back. Yet she still keeps sliding in my DMs and when she talks to me, we talk like normal.

So my question is, what the heck do I do? Do I just ignore her and move on? I know I probably should(mixed signals = low interest) and I am spinning other plates, but honestly this girl is my favorite out of all of them. I know my mistake was probably not fvcking her that first time. Then again, she was asking me about a party we’re doing this week and she said she’ll show up.

Sosuavers, can you help me decide what to do about this?

She probably has other guys hitting her up. Your just attention for her and maybe a back up guy. You dont have a lot of plays here. I would just invite her over to your place or move on.

 

[ItsFate451]

Hey guys, I’m doing much better with women and the relationships in my life thanks to this site! However, there’s this one girl that’s confusing me.

At first, she was talking all crazy sexual to me and had a super high interest level. I made out with her, and she was grinding all over me. I know I should’ve fvcked her then, but for some reason I didn’t.

After that, her interest has been really hot and cold. So I’d ignore her, but she kept on texting me first and hitting me up. It happened over and over again! Talk about mixed signals. I asked her to hang out with me at a concert, and she was like “yeah but I may bring my best friend.” I concluded low interest and didn’t text her back. Yet she still keeps sliding in my DMs and when she talks to me, we talk like normal.

So my question is, what the heck do I do? Do I just ignore her and move on? I know I probably should(mixed signals = low interest) and I am spinning other plates, but honestly this girl is my favorite out of all of them. I know my mistake was probably not fvcking her that first time. Then again, she was asking me about a party we’re doing this week and she said she’ll show up.

Sosuavers, can you help me decide what to do about this?

Attention seeker. Why didn’t you fvck her? There had to be a reason. When you didn’t make a move that moment she lost interest. She’s hitting you up because she likes the attention. Whenever she contacts you, set a date and get off the phone. Don’t text all day with women.

 

[jaymbrs]

She realized you were too beta when you didn't make a move on her slutty self. She's DTF so you need to approach her that way. Not invites to concerts and **** like that.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Attention seeker. Why didn’t you fvck her? There had to be a reason. When you didn’t make a move that moment she lost interest. She’s hitting you up because she likes the attention. Whenever she contacts you, set a date and get off the phone. Don’t text all day with women.

You’re right. I just hesitated for some reason. That’s a mistake that I’ll never make again

 

[nicksaiz65]

Great advice everyone. I ended up getting flaked on in the end. So fvck it. I’m moving on and spinning plates, this’ll be a good lesson.

 

[Glassguy]

Great advice everyone. I ended up getting flaked on in the end. So fvck it. I’m moving on and spinning plates, this’ll be a good lesson.

Well, now you know. Dont waste any more time on this one. Remember, time is your currency that you are exchanging for sex.

there’s this one girl that’s confusing me

Low interest. She may be into you, but you are not #1 on her list. No big deal.

when she talks to me, we talk like normal.

You could have friendzoned yourself by not closing her on coming over

she was talking all crazy sexual to me

This is where you needed to close her.

"I want to do some really naughty things to you.......come to my place at 9pm". Its either a yes, no or she counters with a time that works better for her.

If she pulls some side stepping move and dances around it, just totally ghost her or tell her "put up or shut up. I am not interested in more friendly chat. Lets either do this or not....no big deal to me either way".