What’s the reason?? !!

[MountainSlide]

This girl that I used to go on dates with (but it just naturally fizzled out). randomly starts messaging me today (I did bang one of her friends about a week ago). So I chatted with her over text a little. Then asked her when she’d be free to catch up. She responds with “I dunno” and made a lame excuse. I responded and said awesome good luck with that!

What the f*ck is her point in even messaging me if she doesn’t want to meet up???

 

[In2theGame]

Ah, the classic Vague Woman. You should of been more direct with her to stop the bullsh*t right at its tracks. Invite her over or initiate something stronger so she shows her true intentions. Is she wasting your time or is she really interested in meeting up/hooking up with you. If anything, its just her being an attention seeking vulture which many Women tend to be.

 

[Mazer]

This girl that I used to go on dates with (but it just naturally fizzled out). randomly starts messaging me today (I did bang one of her friends about a week ago). So I chatted with her over text a little. Then asked her when she’d be free to catch up. She responds with “I dunno” and made a lame excuse. I responded and said awesome good luck with that!

What the f*ck is her point in even messaging me if she doesn’t want to meet up???

The answer lies in your post. You banged one of her friends.

 

[MountainSlide]

Ah, the classic Vague Woman. You should of been more direct with her to stop the bullsh*t right at its tracks. Invite her over or initiate something stronger so she shows her true intentions. Is she wasting your time or is she really interested in meeting up/hooking up with you. If anything, its just her being an attention seeking vulture which many Women tend to be.

That’s what I did lol. I don’t f*ck around. If I woman is messaging me, I assume she wants to meet up, chit chat for a few messages, then ask them out. I was surprised by the f*ck around here though...

 

[dude99]

This girl that I used to go on dates with (but it just naturally fizzled out). randomly starts messaging me today (I did bang one of her friends about a week ago). So I chatted with her over text a little. Then asked her when she’d be free to catch up. She responds with “I dunno” and made a lame excuse. I responded and said awesome good luck with that!

What the f*ck is her point in even messaging me if she doesn’t want to meet up???

Nosey. Her friend told her about you banging her and she went "oh yeah.... that guy." She then got nosey and wanted to see if she could still have you. She wanted to know if she could command your attention. You answered her question by asking her when she is free to catch up. Instant validation.

Next time be too busy. Next time she reaches out (if she does,) answer with "hey great to hear from you but im getting slammed, have to catch up later."
Then go ghost and ignore.

It fizzled out. Probably because there was no challenge. It fizzled out. Now it is up to her to work for it.

 

[Serenity]

I did bang one of her friends about a week ago

I was surprised by the f*ck around here though...

Really? Sorry, but that is a bit dense.

 

[backseatjuan]

I doubt it. I’m thinking something along the lines of the girl you banged asked her to message you, fond out if you’re serious with her, or just a fling.

 

[sosousage]

Ah, the classic Vague Woman. You should of been more direct with her to stop the bullsh*t right at its tracks. Invite her over or initiate something stronger so she shows her true intentions. Is she wasting your time or is she really interested in meeting up/hooking up with you. If anything, its just her being an attention seeking vulture which many Women tend to be.

no. he should reply with 1 words or not at all and wait till she suggests meeting

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

it really doesn't matter what you say as long as you own it and aren't dwelling on what was said. if a woman wants to see you she'll make it known. she reached out, you polarized her, she made it clear she was only probing. it doesn't make sense to try and manipulate her into your bed. next time you'll be inclined to think she's only probing again so you'll be even more laid back with your responses. eventually her probing will seem more obnoxious than intriguing and you'll naturally lose interest, responding rarely, if at all. not out of bitterness, but because you're on to better things. i tend to respond in a teasing manner if i'm in the mood and not responding at all if i'm not.