"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What’s a sport you played while young that now makes you feel old?

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So I’m still here in The Philippines and during the evening, I like to go to the park and just chill out…..

While I was there, I observed a group of guys playing basketball for the first time in months. Now mind you, Filipino dudes tend to be smaller in height, but these dudes who were playing weren’t no scrubs.

Some of them were actually 6 ft tall and above and were super quick and athletic. During a fast break, that got me thinking of my knee problems and that I’m in my mid 30’s, slow and not as fast as I’m use to.

I use to play all the time when I was a teenager and in my 20s. I haven’t played a pick up game in two years.

Not only that, but my interest has dwindled a bit. I’m more interested in taking up more peaceful and leisurely activities like solitary cycling. It seems super chill and peaceful.

But anyways, watching those group of guys play sometime, reminds me of my growing mortality. I’m sure a couple of older dudes here can relate when they’re watching the sport of their youth in person.

Just wanted to vent.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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I notice something similar but not necessarily in physical terms but more in mental ones.

I find myself less and less patient for team sports or any sport I have to cooperate with others which is why I now simply hit the gym and pratice MMA.

And when it comes of mma it's annoying as F to train new techniques unless I know the other guy really well.
 
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