"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What´s the deal breaker with women

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You see guys who make women laugh, without getting any.
You see guys teasing, being ****y/funny without getting any.
You see guys that are very smart and interesting that also, don´t get any.
You see alpha males that act sexual, that don´t get any....
You see good looking and/or in shape guys that don´t get any...

There are some cases that the guy, has all the characteristics above, and he is still rejected.

In the context of finding a long term relationship, what makes women feel chemistry with you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Moderation is key.

You see guys who make women laugh, without getting any.

Too funny and you're a clown who isn't respected or taken seriously by women.

You see guys teasing, being ****y/funny without getting any.

Too much and you're termed a full of yourself douchebag/assh0le.

You see guys that are very smart and interesting that also, don´t get any.

Too much intelligence is boooooring for women.

You see alpha males that act sexual, that don´t get any....

Too much and you're a pervert/creep.

You see good looking and/or in shape guys that don´t get any...

These guys don't get laid because they either lack a personality or don't try hard enough.
 
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Lot's of guys can also ACT these ways, if they do not truly be who they are women will eventually sense this and become turned off.
 
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Really something what that can spread something among the people of new generation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's actually quite simple. The deal breaker with women is TALKING TO A LOT OF WOMEN!

It's all a numbers game when it comes to women. The more women you talk to the higher your chances of getting laid.

Somebody in another thread mentioned just saying "hi" to a new woman everyday is guaranteed to get you laid.

Having all those traits mentioned in the OP make it much more likely for you to get laid but still some guys expect to get laid just because of "them," but you still have to do the work. Women have plenty of pursuers they don't need to pursue you unless you're rich. Just being good looking is not good enough, or funny, or alpha. Money and power are the only traits that make women pursue men.

PUA's don't become PUA's by focusing on single projects, they open dozens of women every single day, getting rejected hundreds of times.
 
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