"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What´s the deal breaker with women

JdelaSilviera

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You see guys who make women laugh, without getting any.
You see guys teasing, being ****y/funny without getting any.
You see guys that are very smart and interesting that also, don´t get any.
You see alpha males that act sexual, that don´t get any....
You see good looking and/or in shape guys that don´t get any...

There are some cases that the guy, has all the characteristics above, and he is still rejected.

In the context of finding a long term relationship, what makes women feel chemistry with you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Moderation is key.

You see guys who make women laugh, without getting any.

Too funny and you're a clown who isn't respected or taken seriously by women.

You see guys teasing, being ****y/funny without getting any.

Too much and you're termed a full of yourself douchebag/assh0le.

You see guys that are very smart and interesting that also, don´t get any.

Too much intelligence is boooooring for women.

You see alpha males that act sexual, that don´t get any....

Too much and you're a pervert/creep.

You see good looking and/or in shape guys that don´t get any...

These guys don't get laid because they either lack a personality or don't try hard enough.
 

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Lot's of guys can also ACT these ways, if they do not truly be who they are women will eventually sense this and become turned off.
 

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Really something what that can spread something among the people of new generation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's actually quite simple. The deal breaker with women is TALKING TO A LOT OF WOMEN!

It's all a numbers game when it comes to women. The more women you talk to the higher your chances of getting laid.

Somebody in another thread mentioned just saying "hi" to a new woman everyday is guaranteed to get you laid.

Having all those traits mentioned in the OP make it much more likely for you to get laid but still some guys expect to get laid just because of "them," but you still have to do the work. Women have plenty of pursuers they don't need to pursue you unless you're rich. Just being good looking is not good enough, or funny, or alpha. Money and power are the only traits that make women pursue men.

PUA's don't become PUA's by focusing on single projects, they open dozens of women every single day, getting rejected hundreds of times.
 
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