"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What´s the deal breaker with women

JdelaSilviera

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You see guys who make women laugh, without getting any.
You see guys teasing, being ****y/funny without getting any.
You see guys that are very smart and interesting that also, don´t get any.
You see alpha males that act sexual, that don´t get any....
You see good looking and/or in shape guys that don´t get any...

There are some cases that the guy, has all the characteristics above, and he is still rejected.

In the context of finding a long term relationship, what makes women feel chemistry with you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Moderation is key.

You see guys who make women laugh, without getting any.

Too funny and you're a clown who isn't respected or taken seriously by women.

You see guys teasing, being ****y/funny without getting any.

Too much and you're termed a full of yourself douchebag/assh0le.

You see guys that are very smart and interesting that also, don´t get any.

Too much intelligence is boooooring for women.

You see alpha males that act sexual, that don´t get any....

Too much and you're a pervert/creep.

You see good looking and/or in shape guys that don´t get any...

These guys don't get laid because they either lack a personality or don't try hard enough.
 

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Lot's of guys can also ACT these ways, if they do not truly be who they are women will eventually sense this and become turned off.
 

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Really something what that can spread something among the people of new generation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's actually quite simple. The deal breaker with women is TALKING TO A LOT OF WOMEN!

It's all a numbers game when it comes to women. The more women you talk to the higher your chances of getting laid.

Somebody in another thread mentioned just saying "hi" to a new woman everyday is guaranteed to get you laid.

Having all those traits mentioned in the OP make it much more likely for you to get laid but still some guys expect to get laid just because of "them," but you still have to do the work. Women have plenty of pursuers they don't need to pursue you unless you're rich. Just being good looking is not good enough, or funny, or alpha. Money and power are the only traits that make women pursue men.

PUA's don't become PUA's by focusing on single projects, they open dozens of women every single day, getting rejected hundreds of times.
 
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