"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WhAcKeD!'s 6 Rules to Follow When Sarging Younger Girls

Taviii

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Hey WhAcKeD! if it goes for you then use it!

I will though give you some examples of why the age difference is one of your main weapons:

-for a girl having an older boyfriend is great. Why? Because all of her friends will appreciate her more.

-having an older bf also means a lot more popularity in high-school because the more you spend time in it the more people know you so being your gf she will get more popularity than the average girl her age. And you know that everyone wants to be popular.

-if her friends appreciate her more because of you, this will automatically turn you in the prize

-its a great way to tease her if she is younger (you know that all girls want to get big faster) :)

For all I know she could like you only because you are older. Why do you want to give up that weapon?

Anyways its kind of to much talk on this subject because the young girls are so easy to get if you are older that you really don't need a lot of advice for it :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WhAcKeD!

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Taviii said:
Hey WhAcKeD! if it goes for you then use it!

I will though give you some examples of why the age difference is one of your main weapons:

-for a girl having an older boyfriend is great. Why? Because all of her friends will appreciate her more.

-having an older bf also means a lot more popularity in high-school because the more you spend time in it the more people know you so being your gf she will get more popularity than the average girl her age. And you know that everyone wants to be popular.

-if her friends appreciate her more because of you, this will automatically turn you in the prize

-its a great way to tease her if she is younger (you know that all girls want to get big faster) :)

For all I know she could like you only because you are older. Why do you want to give up that weapon?

Anyways its kind of to much talk on this subject because the young girls are so easy to get if you are older that you really don't need a lot of advice for it :)
-its a great way to tease her if she is younger (you know that all girls want to get big faster) :)

If you do this, she could get uncomfortable with the fact you are bringing up the difference in age. By doing this, you are trying to put yourself on level she is not worthy of attaining because she isn't old enough, it makes you seem to overpowering. If you want to do this, go ahead, but don't expect to much as a result of teasing her about her age.

-For all I know she could like you only because you are older. Why do you want to give up that weapon?

I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want the girl to date me because of my age. If you think that is a weapon, then that relationship won't last long at all.
 

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So you are saying that its ok to act immature like an 15 year old punk to please a girl instead of making her play by your rules, the rules your age dictates you.

Mate, thats AFC mentality.
 

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Taviii said:
So you are saying that its ok to act immature like an 15 year old punk to please a girl instead of making her play by your rules, the rules your age dictates you.

Mate, thats AFC mentality.
lol...if everyone went by your mentality, I guess we are all defined as AFC's huh? It's called changing and adapting to your environment bud. PUA's and DJ's find ways to get the attraction of the target through various methods, that is why it is called the game.

I think maybe you should go back and re-evaluate your understanding of what exactly defines a DJ and a Pick-Up-Artist.
 

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Mate here is a little phrase from Pook's Be A Man thread:

Away with the quest to prove YOURSELF and let her prove HERSELF to you for YOU are the Don Juan.

I'm not changing and adapting to anything, even less to a 17 year old girl, let her prove HERSELF to me for I am the Don Juan.

Cheers
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Being a DJ is all about fufillment and success, I believe. As long as one person is having success with a method, that's enough. Someone else's definition of DJ could be different from yours. I guess it comes down to if you're happy with your life or not.
 

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If you do not believe what defines a GOOD PUA is one that can take any situation and adapt to it, you are certainly blind.

Let me give you this example:

I go up to a girl, I start out with the normal fluff stuff and I start building up her interest level by using neg hits. This doesn't work and it's clearly indicated by her body language and her tone of voice. So I change, I adapt to the situation. What I am currently using to gauge interest is not working, I must find something else within the back of my head that will save the situation and get her interest level higher. I use kino, I start using a little palm reading tactic I learned. She starts smiling and laughing while I graze her palm, while leaning in to hear what I have to say her future holds, her interest level is peaked.

I changed, I adapted to the situation at hand by using different methods in my arsenal.

Darwin was a smart man.
 

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Mr_rogers said:
Being a DJ is all about fufillment and success, I believe. As long as one person is having success with a method, that's enough. Someone else's definition of DJ could be different from yours. I guess it comes down to if you're happy with your life or not.
Good input bro.
 

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There, cleaned up this thread. I don't want anymore arguments back and forth. Whacked! and Tavii, you two were having a good discussion about what being a DJ means and you both have different mentalities. Good discussion, but don't go into arguments like you did.
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
There, cleaned up this thread. I don't want anymore arguments back and forth. Whacked! and Tavii, you two were having a good discussion about what being a DJ means and you both have different mentalities. Good discussion, but don't go into arguments like you did.
No problem. Thanks for cleaning up the thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WhAcKeD! said:
If you do not believe what defines a GOOD PUA is one that can take any situation and adapt to it, you are certainly blind.
I never said something about PUA's, but anyways like VirutalMind said there can be more than one way of thinking in this whole seduction game so I'm not blind and maybe you have not an AFC mentality.

One thing that I noticed is that maybe this is the difference between PUA and DJ:

PUA - focused on the girl and how to get her, and adapting to the situations derived from this
DJ - focused on improving himself and getting girls by showing them their value and not by chasing

A discussion about this difference could be interesting...
 

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Good point. There are many different approaches in the ways of getting women within our world, just got to find out what works best for each of us. :)
 

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Hey I have to agree with Taviii, not really to criticize the 6 rules to sarging but getting younger girl, at least for me and most of my friends is extremly easy. If your involved in a sport, decent looking, able to charm and be funny thats almost all it takes, the age difference in fact makes them dig you even more like Taviii said and you become a prize to them. The more mysteriously you act with them too the more they get into you. A chick in my science class for example, i thought she was kinda hot but i wasnt down to have a relation ship with her but i got her and a few other girls to dig me just by kinda giving them attention teasing makin fun of them and then ignoring them for a bit. I could honestly say i could have gotten some action but thats more of my friends game, the reason i dont liek seducing younger chicks just for sexual pleasure is it feels like its too easy and makes me feel like im doin it cuz Im afraid of going for a older chick my age or something....

plus the little ones always wanna start some intense love relationship when ur just down to hook up haha...trust me u dont wannem runnin around when trying to get someone better
 

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I agree. There are a ton of younger girls out there that like the guy based soley on the fact that he is older, so therefore they view it as an oppurtunity for them to take advantage of the situation and either respond to you or actually invoke response from you.

However, because many younger girls are like this, I have found the methods I created to work the best to actually get passed the age barrier so that an actual relationship can form that is not based soley on the fact that you are older than them. Some of the younger ones that are hard to kick off with can be sarged using these techniques as well.

Keep the responses coming, thanks guys. :)
 
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