"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WhAcKeD!'s 6 Rules to Follow When Sarging Younger Girls

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Hey WhAcKeD! if it goes for you then use it!

I will though give you some examples of why the age difference is one of your main weapons:

-for a girl having an older boyfriend is great. Why? Because all of her friends will appreciate her more.

-having an older bf also means a lot more popularity in high-school because the more you spend time in it the more people know you so being your gf she will get more popularity than the average girl her age. And you know that everyone wants to be popular.

-if her friends appreciate her more because of you, this will automatically turn you in the prize

-its a great way to tease her if she is younger (you know that all girls want to get big faster) :)

For all I know she could like you only because you are older. Why do you want to give up that weapon?

Anyways its kind of to much talk on this subject because the young girls are so easy to get if you are older that you really don't need a lot of advice for it :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taviii said:
Hey WhAcKeD! if it goes for you then use it!

I will though give you some examples of why the age difference is one of your main weapons:

-for a girl having an older boyfriend is great. Why? Because all of her friends will appreciate her more.

-having an older bf also means a lot more popularity in high-school because the more you spend time in it the more people know you so being your gf she will get more popularity than the average girl her age. And you know that everyone wants to be popular.

-if her friends appreciate her more because of you, this will automatically turn you in the prize

-its a great way to tease her if she is younger (you know that all girls want to get big faster) :)

For all I know she could like you only because you are older. Why do you want to give up that weapon?

Anyways its kind of to much talk on this subject because the young girls are so easy to get if you are older that you really don't need a lot of advice for it :)
-its a great way to tease her if she is younger (you know that all girls want to get big faster) :)

If you do this, she could get uncomfortable with the fact you are bringing up the difference in age. By doing this, you are trying to put yourself on level she is not worthy of attaining because she isn't old enough, it makes you seem to overpowering. If you want to do this, go ahead, but don't expect to much as a result of teasing her about her age.

-For all I know she could like you only because you are older. Why do you want to give up that weapon?

I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want the girl to date me because of my age. If you think that is a weapon, then that relationship won't last long at all.
 

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So you are saying that its ok to act immature like an 15 year old punk to please a girl instead of making her play by your rules, the rules your age dictates you.

Mate, thats AFC mentality.
 

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Taviii said:
So you are saying that its ok to act immature like an 15 year old punk to please a girl instead of making her play by your rules, the rules your age dictates you.

Mate, thats AFC mentality.
lol...if everyone went by your mentality, I guess we are all defined as AFC's huh? It's called changing and adapting to your environment bud. PUA's and DJ's find ways to get the attraction of the target through various methods, that is why it is called the game.

I think maybe you should go back and re-evaluate your understanding of what exactly defines a DJ and a Pick-Up-Artist.
 

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Mate here is a little phrase from Pook's Be A Man thread:

Away with the quest to prove YOURSELF and let her prove HERSELF to you for YOU are the Don Juan.

I'm not changing and adapting to anything, even less to a 17 year old girl, let her prove HERSELF to me for I am the Don Juan.

Cheers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being a DJ is all about fufillment and success, I believe. As long as one person is having success with a method, that's enough. Someone else's definition of DJ could be different from yours. I guess it comes down to if you're happy with your life or not.
 

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If you do not believe what defines a GOOD PUA is one that can take any situation and adapt to it, you are certainly blind.

Let me give you this example:

I go up to a girl, I start out with the normal fluff stuff and I start building up her interest level by using neg hits. This doesn't work and it's clearly indicated by her body language and her tone of voice. So I change, I adapt to the situation. What I am currently using to gauge interest is not working, I must find something else within the back of my head that will save the situation and get her interest level higher. I use kino, I start using a little palm reading tactic I learned. She starts smiling and laughing while I graze her palm, while leaning in to hear what I have to say her future holds, her interest level is peaked.

I changed, I adapted to the situation at hand by using different methods in my arsenal.

Darwin was a smart man.
 

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Mr_rogers said:
Being a DJ is all about fufillment and success, I believe. As long as one person is having success with a method, that's enough. Someone else's definition of DJ could be different from yours. I guess it comes down to if you're happy with your life or not.
Good input bro.
 

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There, cleaned up this thread. I don't want anymore arguments back and forth. Whacked! and Tavii, you two were having a good discussion about what being a DJ means and you both have different mentalities. Good discussion, but don't go into arguments like you did.
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
There, cleaned up this thread. I don't want anymore arguments back and forth. Whacked! and Tavii, you two were having a good discussion about what being a DJ means and you both have different mentalities. Good discussion, but don't go into arguments like you did.
No problem. Thanks for cleaning up the thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WhAcKeD! said:
If you do not believe what defines a GOOD PUA is one that can take any situation and adapt to it, you are certainly blind.
I never said something about PUA's, but anyways like VirutalMind said there can be more than one way of thinking in this whole seduction game so I'm not blind and maybe you have not an AFC mentality.

One thing that I noticed is that maybe this is the difference between PUA and DJ:

PUA - focused on the girl and how to get her, and adapting to the situations derived from this
DJ - focused on improving himself and getting girls by showing them their value and not by chasing

A discussion about this difference could be interesting...
 

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Good point. There are many different approaches in the ways of getting women within our world, just got to find out what works best for each of us. :)
 

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Hey I have to agree with Taviii, not really to criticize the 6 rules to sarging but getting younger girl, at least for me and most of my friends is extremly easy. If your involved in a sport, decent looking, able to charm and be funny thats almost all it takes, the age difference in fact makes them dig you even more like Taviii said and you become a prize to them. The more mysteriously you act with them too the more they get into you. A chick in my science class for example, i thought she was kinda hot but i wasnt down to have a relation ship with her but i got her and a few other girls to dig me just by kinda giving them attention teasing makin fun of them and then ignoring them for a bit. I could honestly say i could have gotten some action but thats more of my friends game, the reason i dont liek seducing younger chicks just for sexual pleasure is it feels like its too easy and makes me feel like im doin it cuz Im afraid of going for a older chick my age or something....

plus the little ones always wanna start some intense love relationship when ur just down to hook up haha...trust me u dont wannem runnin around when trying to get someone better
 

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I agree. There are a ton of younger girls out there that like the guy based soley on the fact that he is older, so therefore they view it as an oppurtunity for them to take advantage of the situation and either respond to you or actually invoke response from you.

However, because many younger girls are like this, I have found the methods I created to work the best to actually get passed the age barrier so that an actual relationship can form that is not based soley on the fact that you are older than them. Some of the younger ones that are hard to kick off with can be sarged using these techniques as well.

Keep the responses coming, thanks guys. :)
 
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