"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

"We've got this connection. It's so rare."

thirdtimescharm

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2007
Messages
314
Reaction score
9
Have you heard this before?

I have. About four or five times in the last year from different women I was engaged in sexual liaisons with that mostly last about 1-2 months typically. Then I get bored and go searching for something that goes beyond the infatuation stage. Something that goes beyond the point where they start expecting me to service their needs, be their boyfriend, get in line and be a dog with my tail between my legs because they think they give great blows and are the fairest sex queens of them all.

I'm so tired of that sh*t.

So now I just started seeing this new woman, 10 years younger, and she hasn't made one noise about how amazing and rare our connection is. She has made noises that she loves to fvck, and I've made every effort to do everything -but- so far. And when she asked "do you do that with all your women," I replied, "no, only the ones I really like."

And when/if she says how rare and special our connection is, I'm going to slit my throat.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
what i used to get all the time was "you aren't like other guys i've dated" or the "i have to be honest i've never really been attracted to black guys but I think you are just so damn hot"

generally one of the two. sometimes both.
 

thirdtimescharm

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2007
Messages
314
Reaction score
9
Seriously. Who has seen "Harold & Maude." Now that was something different! Nothing ordinary. Extraordinary. That's the goal for 2012, damn it.
 
Top