"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"We've got this connection. It's so rare."

thirdtimescharm

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Have you heard this before?

I have. About four or five times in the last year from different women I was engaged in sexual liaisons with that mostly last about 1-2 months typically. Then I get bored and go searching for something that goes beyond the infatuation stage. Something that goes beyond the point where they start expecting me to service their needs, be their boyfriend, get in line and be a dog with my tail between my legs because they think they give great blows and are the fairest sex queens of them all.

I'm so tired of that sh*t.

So now I just started seeing this new woman, 10 years younger, and she hasn't made one noise about how amazing and rare our connection is. She has made noises that she loves to fvck, and I've made every effort to do everything -but- so far. And when she asked "do you do that with all your women," I replied, "no, only the ones I really like."

And when/if she says how rare and special our connection is, I'm going to slit my throat.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what i used to get all the time was "you aren't like other guys i've dated" or the "i have to be honest i've never really been attracted to black guys but I think you are just so damn hot"

generally one of the two. sometimes both.
 

thirdtimescharm

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Seriously. Who has seen "Harold & Maude." Now that was something different! Nothing ordinary. Extraordinary. That's the goal for 2012, damn it.
 
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