"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WesCott's journey.

WesCottII

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Note : this post contains many of the same ideas as my other, however it they are elaborated.

This is my story, hope it inspires you.

Back in the day I was your stereotypical nerd. Bowl cut, glasses, interested in science, hell, I even had the pens in my top pocket, ready to make notes!. The kids at school took great delight in insulting me as they passed.
As the years passed I decided that I needed to change something about myself in order to avoid further misery. I cut my hair, looked after my teeth and general appearance. The insults died away and I became happier. However, I realised something was missing. Women.
I joined this site in 2002, under a pseudonym, and spent the whole time looking for the “magic elixir” or “golden script” that would enable me to talk to, and bed any woman that I chose.
After trolling through countless posts I found nothing. Nada. Zilch.

Discovery #1
There is no “golden scroll” that enables you to gain miss wonderful.

Women never found me ugly, but there seemed to be a continuing theme, as one woman put it “ you’d be nice looking, if you weren’t such a wimp”. Since she phrased it so nicely, I joined a gym and bulked up. Still, now that I was no uglier than any other boy, women were not interested! I being very analytical, watched the other boys (jerks) in their pursuits of women. Alas, I could not find a common theme, no scientific pattern!

Discovery #2
“Seduction” is not a science, there are no constants that appear in every pick-up.

I came to the conclusion that perhaps it was my persona that need working on. Therefore I looked up everything I could find about conversations, Neg-hits, C+F and speed seduction. Memorising patterns, whole conversations and the like. “Ah-ha,” I said to myself, “now I have the knowledge, no woman will be able to resist me”. I picked my target, her name was Francis, and laid down my “game”, to my ultimate surprise, Francis was interested, but my conversation still seemed to lack!, but what more could I do? I had memorised every thing from “conversation 101” and “conversation to her heart”. It was at this time that discovery #3 hit me………


Discovery #3
You can stay on SoSuave.Net for 3 years, absorbing every post that you come across, like some huge seducing sponge, but until you go out and gain EXPERIENCE you might as well still be in your AFC days. Don’t formulate a plan for god’ sake, “when she says X, I shall reply with Y”, it doesn’t work.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Part 2.....

The best DJ I ever came across on here (and shall remain nameless) gave me the best piece of advice, when I asked what he talked about with women. “Get woman?” he replied, “I use my instinct”.

Discovery #4
Listen to you instinct. It’s usually right. Don’t fluff talk. Walk off, come back later.

However, one thing was STILL lacking, I wasn’t a man. And who should help me out of this hole? Pook. Who else? I read “secret of the Jerk”, and realised that I should be sexual, rather than hiding it. In short I should be a man

Discovery #5
BE A MAN

To round off this post, getting to where you want to be in life takes determination, drive and dedication. Self improvement is dammed hard work, but the results far outweigh any misgivings you have now. Good luck, and happy hunting.

NOTE: I had this problem, friends getting in the way. The best advice I can give you in this situation, is cut them out. Move away.
 

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Deja-vu.
 

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wes i seen your other post and i have to say me and you were alot alike with our pasts....and our lives are similar today...it seems as though when we both thought there was no light at the end of the tunnel...we turned on our flashlights. and found the truth to why our love lifes were so bleak.

props to wes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah. it didn't take me long to discover seduction is about, what you have on the inside, and how you can improve it. Not about getting it right, all the time.
 

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I'm still pushing the message. So BUMP
 
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