We're still friends right? RIGHT?

[LostAndConfused]

Just got out of another relationshït - already moved on the day we broke up, hooked up with a bunch of other plates, was expecting to never talk to this girl again, but she keeps texting and messaging me asking if we are still friends.

I don't play that "just friends" bullshït - if you drop me, I drop you. What should I say back to her?

I don't care for her but at the same time I don't want to burn that bridge, she would be an easy hookup, you know.....I've made the mistake with ex-girlfriends completely burning the bridge, it's not for me, because usually their friends want to hook up with me too.......if I burn the bridge with her I burn it with all her friends.

any advice?

 

[HoneyHitter]

Don't bow 4 *****

I don't care for her but at the same time I don't want to burn that bridge, she would be an easy hookup, you know.....I've made the mistake with ex-girlfriends completely burning the bridge, it's not for me, because usually their friends want to hook up with me too.......if I burn the bridge with her I burn it with all her friends.

any advice?

Forget about not burning bridges. Ignore her and forget about her girlfriends. Go out and enjoy yourself with other people. Some time later those girlfriends will recognize you somewhere at a club/party and you'll approach them. Don't bow for pvssy.

 

[LinkinParkROX]

Don't bow for pussy.

I like that.

 

[handle]

Don't burn the bridge, just leave it be. You broke up so it's totally legitimate to give some sort of reason for not hanging out with her as friends ("I need space," "I think it's a little early for that," and so on and so forth.) No need to just cut all contact. This way you still get to essentially ignore her as long as you like while staying neutral standing with all her contacts.

The way I see it there's very few times in life that call for burning the bridge. It's remarkably easy to take a moment, offer an explanation (even if it's a little white lie), and then continue living your life. Why should all your peripheral social contacts be cut off?

 

[Allurre]

Don't burn the bridge, just leave it be. You broke up so it's totally legitimate to give some sort of reason for not hanging out with her as friends ("I need space," "I think it's a little early for that," and so on and so forth.) No need to just cut all contact. This way you still get to essentially ignore her as long as you like while staying neutral standing with all her contacts.

The way I see it there's very few times in life that call for burning the bridge. It's remarkably easy to take a moment, offer an explanation (even if it's a little white lie), and then continue living your life. Why should all your peripheral social contacts be cut off?

He said it best. Better to ignore rather than light in aflame. Always try to keep things in good standing order with your ex. You never know when she may offer you a huge business proposition