"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"we're probably not gonna see each other again..so gimme your #"

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I was thinking, would that line be a good one for a closure?

Could it simply be a...


"hey what's up i'm so and so, where do you go to school (blah blah), what do you do (blah blah), what are your dreams (blah blah)"

Which is then followed by a hey look i've gotta run, we're probably not gonna see each other again so write down your number for me so we can keep in touch.

is that a good close? exactly the way I typed it. In particular is the "we're probably not gonna see each other again" saying a good one?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I never saw you before and I probably will never see you again, unless you are willing to give me your number?
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
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I never saw you before and I probably will never see you again, unless you are willing to give me your number?
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hmm interesting, but don't you think it might just come off a tad bit desperate there, not too much, but a tad bit. i don't know, you know more than me in this.
 
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I don't really care for it. If you weren't going to see each other, why waste time calling her, she will probably wonder that. If she has anything on the ball she will know that it's just a line.

I'm usually direct. "Give me your number, I want to see you again."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Take out 'are willing to' ...

And say it with a slight smile.
 
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