"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"we're probably not gonna see each other again..so gimme your #"

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I was thinking, would that line be a good one for a closure?

Could it simply be a...


"hey what's up i'm so and so, where do you go to school (blah blah), what do you do (blah blah), what are your dreams (blah blah)"

Which is then followed by a hey look i've gotta run, we're probably not gonna see each other again so write down your number for me so we can keep in touch.

is that a good close? exactly the way I typed it. In particular is the "we're probably not gonna see each other again" saying a good one?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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add....

I never saw you before and I probably will never see you again, unless you are willing to give me your number?
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
add....

I never saw you before and I probably will never see you again, unless you are willing to give me your number?
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hmm interesting, but don't you think it might just come off a tad bit desperate there, not too much, but a tad bit. i don't know, you know more than me in this.
 
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I don't really care for it. If you weren't going to see each other, why waste time calling her, she will probably wonder that. If she has anything on the ball she will know that it's just a line.

I'm usually direct. "Give me your number, I want to see you again."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Take out 'are willing to' ...

And say it with a slight smile.
 
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