"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We're overrating college, especially when it comes to women.

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I have had the opportunity to live in the younger parts of NYC and comparing it to my college days, younger neighborhoods in NYC win big time. Now I can see if someone went to Florida St that maybe it is true but I really think that the whole "you'll never run into such a high number of attractive women" nonsense is just that, nonsense.

Just walking around in younger parts of some big cities, I feel like I run into way more hot girls than I ever did at my university (big 10 school). Not just that but I have found that women are more approachable and game works since the social scene is not as tight knit as it was in college where being in a frat was required to get the hottest girls.

I think we're overrating college.

What is said is true if you move to a boring suburb or small town after graduation but otherwise, it isn't so.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm not the most accomplished DJ, but this is probably true. I lived close to LoDo (a suburb of Denver) and a short bus ride to Boulder, an awesome college town. Hot women everywhere.
 

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There you have it, folks, if you want more women, choose walking around in younger parts of NYC over college.
 
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