"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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went to dinner, suggestions for a funny text

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So I went to dinner on Fri night w/ this girl and b/c it was a new restaurant our local city newspaper was taking photos of the restaurant and wanted us in the pictures.. at first neither of us wanted to be in the pictures, but then we were like okay. the photographer took multiple photos w/ many different people on the patio. Typical girl fashion she was worried about her hair, and some bags in her eye, but she looked fine.

But tomorrow, I want to jokingly send her a text and say. " omfg our photo is in the paper...your hair"
I want to play it for a couple hours. Just jokingly mess w/ her. I know she won't be able to look in the paper for awhile.
Any other funny suggestions...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Omg our picture is in the paper! you should see your hair!

Something like that would be funny :) What you said is pretty much the same thing too
 
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Jumpman23 said:
But tomorrow, I want to jokingly send her a text and say. " omfg our photo is in the paper...your hair"
I want to play it for a couple hours. Just jokingly mess w/ her. I know she won't be able to look in the paper for awhile.
Any other funny suggestions...
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First of all you are swearing in a text message = turn off for a girl
Second of all you are insulting her hair = turn off for a girl

So no, don't send a text like that.
 
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Read his post, she thought her hair was fukked up in the beginning anyways, hes just teasing her. Go ahead and send the message dude who gives anyway...
 
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Send the text, if she gets offended boom you created a spike on her emotions. (which is a good thing), reply by saying, "take a joke goofball, we all have our days" or something.

Doesn't matter too much what you say, just don't supplicate.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so i send her a text this morning
"omg our photo is in the paper."

She replies

"Hows my hair."
haven't replied back yet though.
 
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