"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Went to a concert(s) this weekend and yesterday I felt good but today not so good.

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I am trying to figure out my core problem with my inner game so I can finally have it resolved and have no issue when I am trying to talk to women or groups or people in general. I somewhat get humor in my head sometimes (not all the time) when I feel comfortable but, sometimes I see a girl and I don't know what to say that could be funny to her. Example, we were waiting for chargers for our phones and I told a girl "no room for you" with a smirk and she laughed or these girls in a group I asked "so where are the cool girls at?" they laughed and one said "were you given a bet to say that?" I said maybe. Also, I tried talking to groups today and all I could think of was basic conversations. I know that won't get me too far with women or making friends. I am trying to reinvent myself altogether, for some reason I have in my head that I need to have her attracted to me somehow by making her laugh then talking to her. I am not sure how to begin? I was in my head a little bit worried, I was going to approach a few girls I thought I would have a chance with but didn't feel too great about it for some reason. I feel like I also want to be able to get on a emotional connection with any girl. If I could get pointed in the proper direction I would appreciate it and have pointers on why I think and feel this way. I want to be able to talk to women and have no issue trying to talk to them and hookup with them anywhere. I want to progress past just saying something to her and she doesn't care to talk to me or anything and just walks off and that's it.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You could be suffering from Generalized Anxiety Disorder. And give it up for a while, go pursue another challenges in life.
 
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