"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Went to a concert(s) this weekend and yesterday I felt good but today not so good.

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I am trying to figure out my core problem with my inner game so I can finally have it resolved and have no issue when I am trying to talk to women or groups or people in general. I somewhat get humor in my head sometimes (not all the time) when I feel comfortable but, sometimes I see a girl and I don't know what to say that could be funny to her. Example, we were waiting for chargers for our phones and I told a girl "no room for you" with a smirk and she laughed or these girls in a group I asked "so where are the cool girls at?" they laughed and one said "were you given a bet to say that?" I said maybe. Also, I tried talking to groups today and all I could think of was basic conversations. I know that won't get me too far with women or making friends. I am trying to reinvent myself altogether, for some reason I have in my head that I need to have her attracted to me somehow by making her laugh then talking to her. I am not sure how to begin? I was in my head a little bit worried, I was going to approach a few girls I thought I would have a chance with but didn't feel too great about it for some reason. I feel like I also want to be able to get on a emotional connection with any girl. If I could get pointed in the proper direction I would appreciate it and have pointers on why I think and feel this way. I want to be able to talk to women and have no issue trying to talk to them and hookup with them anywhere. I want to progress past just saying something to her and she doesn't care to talk to me or anything and just walks off and that's it.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You could be suffering from Generalized Anxiety Disorder. And give it up for a while, go pursue another challenges in life.
 
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