"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Went out with ex gf

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salsalero

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I went out with ex gf and two of our friends, but shes got a new bf and i got a new gf.

So the whole evening I didn't use any kino or touched her until I had a glass of red wine and beer and then we played a couple of games of pool.

So I grabbed her butt and she said nothing. I hold her and kissed her and I asked her are she sure she want to do it and she said yes.

We sat at bar and she sat on my lap and we kissed again in neck as well. When I drove home I put my hand on her legs and moved it up and she said it is ok.

She said she want to go out alone with me in future and we are not 100% done.

My question is she say she got a bf, but she allow me to go that far. What do u guys think is she still into me or just playing me?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man, dude, you're a TOOL. A salsa tapdancing drama-loving tool.

You have 4 threads all owned to you're ex girlfriend. What is you're aim? Last time it was that you're ex was at a club with you and you're new girlfriend and she caused some mayhem messing it up with the new girl, now you're going out with that same ex?

Stop making these threads about you're damned ex. You can easily rail her again, I don't know what you're concernced about.
 
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The Mad Ghost said:
Man, dude, you're a TOOL. A salsa tapdancing drama-loving tool.

You have 4 threads all owned to you're ex girlfriend. What is you're aim? Last time it was that you're ex was at a club with you and you're new girlfriend and she caused some mayhem messing it up with the new girl, now you're going out with that same ex?

Stop making these threads about you're damned ex. You can easily rail her again, I don't know what you're concernced about.
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Please read this article. I'm a non-native English speaker, and even I get this right, so can you!
 
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Maybe he likes the drama that is about to be unleashed upon him. Sometimes headache and heartache is the spice of life?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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L B said:
Maybe he likes the drama that is about to be unleashed upon him. Sometimes headache and heartache is the spice of life?
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Hear hear, AFC with girl traits :p. Girls love this kind of drama, they indulge themselves in it as much as possible. Maybe this guy does the same :D.
 
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