"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Went out with ex gf

salsalero

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I went out with ex gf and two of our friends, but shes got a new bf and i got a new gf.

So the whole evening I didn't use any kino or touched her until I had a glass of red wine and beer and then we played a couple of games of pool.

So I grabbed her butt and she said nothing. I hold her and kissed her and I asked her are she sure she want to do it and she said yes.

We sat at bar and she sat on my lap and we kissed again in neck as well. When I drove home I put my hand on her legs and moved it up and she said it is ok.

She said she want to go out alone with me in future and we are not 100% done.

My question is she say she got a bf, but she allow me to go that far. What do u guys think is she still into me or just playing me?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Mad Ghost

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Man, dude, you're a TOOL. A salsa tapdancing drama-loving tool.

You have 4 threads all owned to you're ex girlfriend. What is you're aim? Last time it was that you're ex was at a club with you and you're new girlfriend and she caused some mayhem messing it up with the new girl, now you're going out with that same ex?

Stop making these threads about you're damned ex. You can easily rail her again, I don't know what you're concernced about.
 

SandHawk

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The Mad Ghost said:
Man, dude, you're a TOOL. A salsa tapdancing drama-loving tool.

You have 4 threads all owned to you're ex girlfriend. What is you're aim? Last time it was that you're ex was at a club with you and you're new girlfriend and she caused some mayhem messing it up with the new girl, now you're going out with that same ex?

Stop making these threads about you're damned ex. You can easily rail her again, I don't know what you're concernced about.
Please read this article. I'm a non-native English speaker, and even I get this right, so can you!
 

L B

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Maybe he likes the drama that is about to be unleashed upon him. Sometimes headache and heartache is the spice of life?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SandHawk

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L B said:
Maybe he likes the drama that is about to be unleashed upon him. Sometimes headache and heartache is the spice of life?
Hear hear, AFC with girl traits :p. Girls love this kind of drama, they indulge themselves in it as much as possible. Maybe this guy does the same :D.
 
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