"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Went out and met a girl

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So yesterday I decided to went out with a friend to a party. And as some guys her adviced me to meet new women I tried it.

I've met a 18yr old and enjoyed that party with her. Have to say that it was good kissing someone after my break up. She showed a high interest level and we had such a great night.

I had some drinks (something I feel a bit guilty about), but I think in that situation I would not do much without drinking something. So I got some whisky and drink it with my friends. Hope to get back my goals of no alcohol again.

Had a great time talking with that girl. She was that kind of nerd girl and we talked about some stuffs I didnt imagine to talk to a girl on a party like star wars and stuffs like that. Also the kissing was great, we started kissing and she got hot and I was crazy about taking her to my bed.

I still have that kind of sad feeling after broke up but it less than the other days, and it was really good meeting someone that showed a genuine interest and desire. She is not from my town, but maybe I can have another date with her.

I just want to be able to go out and do not feel that need to drink. Idk if its ok to allow myself to have some drinks when going out... But it happened.

Today Im thinking to go to the cinema and watch a movie. Like a solo went to cinema and enjoy a good movie.

Slowly I think I will be able to get over that ex and be fine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atom Smasher

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You will get over it and you’ll be fine. You proved to yourself that interested women are plentiful. Just keep doing what you’re doing and let a little more time pass. Soon that relationship will have no effect on you.
 

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You will get over it and you’ll be fine. You proved to yourself that interested women are plentiful. Just keep doing what you’re doing and let a little more time pass. Soon that relationship will have no effect on you.
Thanks man! And interested women are really plentiful... Its a very good feeling.
 

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"Im so sad my ex broke up with me. All I have left is hot 18 year old girls throwing themselves at me. Life is so hard"

Just joking bro. U know Im really glad for you. Keep it up. Also, nothing wrong with drinking socially.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow. That was quick. I think you will be just fine.....
 

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Wow. That was quick. I think you will be just fine.....
That was good man. I had a long time to think about all that happened and the more I stay alone/single the more Im feeling better.

My conclusion was that I ignored some initial red flags and it happened all that mess. She didnt like me the way I thought and also never truly respected me based on her behaviors.

Had my mistakes too and Im taking this as a learning.

Working out constantly and Im meeting new plates. So things are flowing quite good. :)

Thank you for all your support man!
 
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