Went NC and she's said Merry Xmas

[jackreacher20155]

should I say Happy Ny?

 

[zorg198]

Ignore.

 

[logicallefty]

I agree, ignore it. She is probably wondering what you are up to but doesn't want to flat out ask you that. Whenever people I like send me "Merry Xmas" I reply "Happy St. Patrick's Day to you too".. When people I don't care about send it, I ignore 100%.

 

[LMFAO]

She may have just sent it to all her contacts, or she's using it as an excuse to get in touch. If you're curious send her "?" as a reply. If she wants to talk she'll say something.

 

[zorg198]

How long you went NC?

 

[Bingo-Player]

ignore this is the first test of many

 

[bukowski_merit]

I'm assuming she sent the merry xmas text 8 days ago on christmas?

And you're wondering if you should send a "happy new year" text a day after new years? Seriously...



You need to get out and meet other women; or get a hobby more occupying than women. Continue to ignore her and move on with your life.

 

[Blistex]

Maintain your no contact. If she is willing to reinitiate contact, she will make her intentions more obvious.

 

[Mr_Stinky]

Ideally you should ignore.

Buuuuuuuuuuut if you want to turn the knife ask:

"Who's this?"

When/if she responds say absolutely nothing

 

[mikey2012]

If you had blocked her this wouldn't haven't happened.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Ignore. It's no longer your business to care about what kind of year she has.

 

[jackreacher20155]

But isn't rude of me not to wish her happy new year because she wished me merry Xmas?
I did wish her merry Xmas back and we small talked for a while then she went silent.

 

[clicheusername20]

But isn't rude of me not to wish her happy new year because she wished me merry Xmas?
I did wish her merry Xmas back and we small talked for a while then she went silent.

No, you move on for your sake, not for hers. You don't care what she might perceive as "rude," you're moving on for you.