backbreaker
Master Don Juan
not even a second thought. antonio brown the pittsburgh steelers WR has left his GF of 6 years for this
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
welp, i've done it. i've found the mythical hb10
- Thread starter backbreaker
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
Sweet, but not a 10. She's obviously biracial( maybe Brazilian?)and kinda reminds me of Draya Michelle:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
That's an 8
AlexKaiser
Don Juan
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Good you found your HB10, but I don't really dig her. Nothing making me go "I NEED to have sex with that girl" but she's aesthetically really nice.
Think it differs from guy to guy.
Think it differs from guy to guy.
backseatjuan
Banned
And how much you give chick in my avatar?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Her t!ts are not big enough to match her ass, and she has hair like Sideshow Bob from The Simpsons.
This obviously isn't the greatest pic, but it is a public one from a newspaper article. I went to high school with the one on the right. She placed 2nd in the Miss America pageant. He niece is on the left. She is the closest I have ever seen to a 10.
This obviously isn't the greatest pic, but it is a public one from a newspaper article. I went to high school with the one on the right. She placed 2nd in the Miss America pageant. He niece is on the left. She is the closest I have ever seen to a 10.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BeTheChange
Master Don Juan
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Lol. Only on SS would we be seeing this girl get an 8.
TheProspect
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Not to mention most guys on here would probably talk themselves out of approaching her lol
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
What do you rate her then?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Plenty of females can look like that if they take care of their body, makeup, hair, nails, clothing, etc.... She's put together. Now what does she bring to the table?not even a second thought. antonio brown the pittsburgh steelers WR has left his GF of 6 years for this
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Neither of these look like 10's man.Her t!ts are not big enough to match her ass, and she has hair like Sideshow Bob from The Simpsons.
This obviously isn't the greatest pic, but it is a public one from a newspaper article. I went to high school with the one on the right. She placed 2nd in the Miss America pageant. He niece is on the left. She is the closest I have ever seen to a 10.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
Nope, not to us!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Nope. Not to me either. But it really is subjective. Different men prefer different proportions, and even the expressions and the attitude projection plays a role.
PeasantPlayer
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I'm not as picky as some of the posts on here, but from my personal subjective opinions these women are not 10s 9s or 8s. At most solid 7s which in my scale equates to a 8.5 because there is no suck thing as a 10 or even a 9 1/2
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.