backbreaker
Master Don Juan
not even a second thought. antonio brown the pittsburgh steelers WR has left his GF of 6 years for this
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
welp, i've done it. i've found the mythical hb10
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
Sweet, but not a 10. She's obviously biracial( maybe Brazilian?)and kinda reminds me of Draya Michelle:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
That's an 8
AlexKaiser
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Good you found your HB10, but I don't really dig her. Nothing making me go "I NEED to have sex with that girl" but she's aesthetically really nice.
Think it differs from guy to guy.
Think it differs from guy to guy.
backseatjuan
Banned
And how much you give chick in my avatar?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Her t!ts are not big enough to match her ass, and she has hair like Sideshow Bob from The Simpsons.
This obviously isn't the greatest pic, but it is a public one from a newspaper article. I went to high school with the one on the right. She placed 2nd in the Miss America pageant. He niece is on the left. She is the closest I have ever seen to a 10.
This obviously isn't the greatest pic, but it is a public one from a newspaper article. I went to high school with the one on the right. She placed 2nd in the Miss America pageant. He niece is on the left. She is the closest I have ever seen to a 10.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BeTheChange
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Lol. Only on SS would we be seeing this girl get an 8.
TheProspect
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Not to mention most guys on here would probably talk themselves out of approaching her lol
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
What do you rate her then?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Plenty of females can look like that if they take care of their body, makeup, hair, nails, clothing, etc.... She's put together. Now what does she bring to the table?not even a second thought. antonio brown the pittsburgh steelers WR has left his GF of 6 years for this
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Neither of these look like 10's man.Her t!ts are not big enough to match her ass, and she has hair like Sideshow Bob from The Simpsons.
This obviously isn't the greatest pic, but it is a public one from a newspaper article. I went to high school with the one on the right. She placed 2nd in the Miss America pageant. He niece is on the left. She is the closest I have ever seen to a 10.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
Nope, not to us!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Nope. Not to me either. But it really is subjective. Different men prefer different proportions, and even the expressions and the attitude projection plays a role.
PeasantPlayer
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I'm not as picky as some of the posts on here, but from my personal subjective opinions these women are not 10s 9s or 8s. At most solid 7s which in my scale equates to a 8.5 because there is no suck thing as a 10 or even a 9 1/2
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.