"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BxPrince24

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if you've read my last post in my "I give up" thread, you know that I was supposed to go on a date with a girl today and her friend was coming along. Well I'm glad to say that I had a great time even though her friend was there.

I took them to Lazer Park where we played video games and lazer tag, got something to eat then left. We were pretty much attatched to each other the whole time, holding hands, flirting and playing with each other, and holding each other.

Numerous times while I was holding her I heard her whisper some things to herself though. At one time I heard her say something like I'm standing with my boyfriend or something like that and when I kissed her on the cheek she said something like I've been waiting for that all day or something similar I know I heard all day. Any info on this guys?

I didn't really push it far because her friend was there and I didnt want ther to feel seperated. So I didn't go in for the kiss, I think that I should wait until we're alone. This was the first time that I've gone out with a girl I considered attractive and it was a blast.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The answer all depends on how old you are. If you are 14, that's what 14 year olds do. If you are 23 (presuming you're not dating a 14 year old), she's nuts!!

Hpoe that helps!
 

BxPrince24

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We're both 18. She's actually very sensible, I doubt she's nuts. It wasn't like she kept whispering to herself, it was more like, I know you guys have come across this, for example, last year there was a girl that really liked me and she said low something like I wanna fvck you then when i asked what did she say? she said nothing. It was pretty much like that kind of stuff. And she only did it about 2 times or so.

I still had a great time. Things would have gone farther if her friend wasn't there. The only downside to this day is that I ended up spending 50 dollars which was all I had, them damn arcade games were 2 dollars per play, but I had fun and I guess that's all that matters in the end.

We have a lot in common, she's very comfortable around me, and with all the stuff I've learned from the DJB I've managed to make her and her friend have a great time. The kino was great, the only thing missing from today was a good kiss. I haven't kissed a girl since I was in the 6th grade... Gonna have to learn all over again.
 

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Also, I recommend watching the Dave Letterman show. The guy's really funny and because I watched and listened to the clips/audio on his site, I was able to entertain them with a few jokes from his monologue.
 
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