"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BxPrince24

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if you've read my last post in my "I give up" thread, you know that I was supposed to go on a date with a girl today and her friend was coming along. Well I'm glad to say that I had a great time even though her friend was there.

I took them to Lazer Park where we played video games and lazer tag, got something to eat then left. We were pretty much attatched to each other the whole time, holding hands, flirting and playing with each other, and holding each other.

Numerous times while I was holding her I heard her whisper some things to herself though. At one time I heard her say something like I'm standing with my boyfriend or something like that and when I kissed her on the cheek she said something like I've been waiting for that all day or something similar I know I heard all day. Any info on this guys?

I didn't really push it far because her friend was there and I didnt want ther to feel seperated. So I didn't go in for the kiss, I think that I should wait until we're alone. This was the first time that I've gone out with a girl I considered attractive and it was a blast.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The answer all depends on how old you are. If you are 14, that's what 14 year olds do. If you are 23 (presuming you're not dating a 14 year old), she's nuts!!

Hpoe that helps!
 

BxPrince24

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We're both 18. She's actually very sensible, I doubt she's nuts. It wasn't like she kept whispering to herself, it was more like, I know you guys have come across this, for example, last year there was a girl that really liked me and she said low something like I wanna fvck you then when i asked what did she say? she said nothing. It was pretty much like that kind of stuff. And she only did it about 2 times or so.

I still had a great time. Things would have gone farther if her friend wasn't there. The only downside to this day is that I ended up spending 50 dollars which was all I had, them damn arcade games were 2 dollars per play, but I had fun and I guess that's all that matters in the end.

We have a lot in common, she's very comfortable around me, and with all the stuff I've learned from the DJB I've managed to make her and her friend have a great time. The kino was great, the only thing missing from today was a good kiss. I haven't kissed a girl since I was in the 6th grade... Gonna have to learn all over again.
 

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Also, I recommend watching the Dave Letterman show. The guy's really funny and because I watched and listened to the clips/audio on his site, I was able to entertain them with a few jokes from his monologue.
 
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