"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well to be honest

bigwuz

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I had a successful year last year I made only 34000 could of made more dollars but fell like I'm struggling in areas. I thankful to still be able to live with my mom but I'm ready for my own house and freedom. I usually mess up when a girl comes around but I'm ready to do some decent things in life. Reading and applying the Dj bible is nice but I need a home first
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheException

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First off congratulations on the success so far.

Second, get your financials in order before doing anything stupid like taking on additional payments that you cannot afford. Id research this area thoroughly. Its not like you just wake up and "buy a house".
 

Tomo

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Always THINK things through. Whatever you are thinking of, think of it as a tattoo you are about to get. You obviously wouldn't walk into a place and get a tramp stamp - you'd take the time to find a reputable place, the tattoo you want and then the ultimate committment.
 
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