"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, this was wierd

slitherjef

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I was a in a decent mood today, dispite getting like four hours of sleep. I decided to try and be a bit more sociable at work, especialy with the women that I find attractive. You know, to chat with, get over my shyness and just used to talking to them. Also talked to a couple customers. Nothing major but better then nothing.

Anyway on with the wierd stuff. Well, wierd to me at least. It actualy starts a couple weeks ago. This girl who works there I have seen every so often, comes backs and chats with my boss. I usualy toss in some sarcastic remark here and there. One day I got her to scream and laugh because I was in the back screaming being funny. So, I have not really had any direct chatting with her. One day I went up to the breakroom to ask my boss something and she was sitting next to him. She saw me, I saw her, I gave her eye contact and held it while talking to my boss. She was looking at me with her head turned, so it was not face to face. I held contact for five seconds or so then broke away and went on my way.

Im feeling okay, hey, I actualy held eye contact! A bit later she passes by the back room, going a route she don't really take. Then again. Then later. And a again. So I see her pass by my back room a hand full of times. I think nothing of this.

Fast forword a little bit, Its a saturday she is board and was talking to my boss for a good hour. I make a couple remarks asking what she was up to, she said she was bored and wanted us to entertain her. I told her my services where not free, to which she replied, "I'm not going to give you money"

I proceed to go back to work. A little bit later she comes up to me while I am working on the sales floor and I make some small talk. "Still bored, eh?" she said yeah. Then I tell her I am going to put her to work. She is like okay, then runs off to talk to some one else.

I keep working. A bit later I run into her in the back room and she asked where the work was. I told her not to worry about it, I could not find the rack I needed for the work and something else was broken anyway. A bit later I see her headed out the door and gave her a, "headed home already?" she said yup.

Then I dont see her for like a week. When I see her, she has a bit of an attitude toward everyone. What ever.

Tonight it got a bit wierd. I see her walking toward me so I said, "Whats up, her name" this would be the first actual real talking I have done with her.

She stops and turns and gives me this wierd ass look, like WTF!? I said, "what? I can't say 'whats up' to some one?" she gives me this attitude, said "no..." I said, "okay then" and proceeded to walk way, when she finished up talking saying like, "...thats harrasment" the way it sounded, it was semi serious. Then I thought, there has never been really anything I have said to her that could be taken as harrasment. I kept walking thinking what ever. Not sure what to think of that comment and her attitude.

A short time later, like 15 min I go on break and see her in the break room. I pay no attention to her, she is chatting on her phone and I make my sandwich, mic it and go sit in the other room and eat, like I normaly do. A few minutes later guess who comes into the other room and sits down on the side of the table facing me? It was her. She was still talking on her phone. I pay her no attention. I found it a bit odd though :crazy: Which leaves me to believe that whole harrasment thing was her being sarcastic and that attitude thing, well I don't know. But what ever.

Do I want this girl? I don't know
Im just trying to be more sociable

I just found this rather strange. And no, this is NOT the hot mom
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lust

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Is she super hot?

The hotter they are the more socially calibrated they are.

Sounds like a bunch of sh!t tests to me.
 

slitherjef

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Lust said:
Is she super hot?

The hotter they are the more socially calibrated they are.

Sounds like a bunch of sh!t tests to me.
Hey lust

I would not say she is super hot to me I would say she is more cute then hot if that makes sense. I would say a solid 7 she has a really nice ass. From what I understand she is only 18 so that is one one reason that I am not sure if I even want to try anything. Not that I give a rip what people think she is legal but still people talk.

I'm just going to be my self around her. not going to make any real attempt to get her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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