Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Well My Ex Just Dropped A Bomb

Monster

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Gangster Of Love said:
Her Christian values didn't prevent her from fornicating with you and with the new guy she met after you, and for you "street smart" only peeps here, the word fornication means having sex with someone you are not married to.

Did you mention the father of the child is in jail??? Sounds like quality people you are dealing with there.
Touche Touche

Dude don't waste your ****ing time! I'm sure you have your own problems and you don't need other problems.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Monster said:
Touche Touche

Dude don't waste your ****ing time! I'm sure you have your own problems and you don't need other problems.

I already said I agree with you guys and am cutting her loose to let some poor chump pick up the slack.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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violator said:
...If anything, maybe I can convert this situation to a friends with benefits type of relationship. She is quite hot. She is 26 and I am 38. But her flaking at the last moment only makes me a little suspicious and wary.

What do you guys think?
Is the poonani that good to merit the effort of sarging not just an ex, but an ex with a new baby? Good thing you decided to put this one where it belongs. C'mon, why did you even consider this in the first place?
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Her Christian values didn't prevent her from fornicating with you and with the new guy she met after you, and for you "street smart" only peeps here, the word fornication means having sex with someone you are not married to.

Did you mention the father of the child is in jail??? Sounds like quality people you are dealing with there.
My previous post pointed out this hypocrisy as well - too many men legitimize a woman's hordom - a sure way to failure!!!

One cannot be a hor and a Christian - this is a contradiction!!!
 

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It doesn't matter if a b!tch is a christian, buddist, hindu, muslim, jew, whatever...it all boils down to one thing. She got fvcked in the arse by some low life, cleaned his c*ck afterwards, swallowed 5 gallons of his c*m, and then got pregnant. Now she is looking for some chump to raise that bastard of a child.

Don't be the chump!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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