"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well My Ex Just Dropped A Bomb

Monster

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Gangster Of Love said:
Her Christian values didn't prevent her from fornicating with you and with the new guy she met after you, and for you "street smart" only peeps here, the word fornication means having sex with someone you are not married to.

Did you mention the father of the child is in jail??? Sounds like quality people you are dealing with there.
Touche Touche

Dude don't waste your ****ing time! I'm sure you have your own problems and you don't need other problems.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Monster said:
Touche Touche

Dude don't waste your ****ing time! I'm sure you have your own problems and you don't need other problems.

I already said I agree with you guys and am cutting her loose to let some poor chump pick up the slack.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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violator said:
...If anything, maybe I can convert this situation to a friends with benefits type of relationship. She is quite hot. She is 26 and I am 38. But her flaking at the last moment only makes me a little suspicious and wary.

What do you guys think?
Is the poonani that good to merit the effort of sarging not just an ex, but an ex with a new baby? Good thing you decided to put this one where it belongs. C'mon, why did you even consider this in the first place?
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Her Christian values didn't prevent her from fornicating with you and with the new guy she met after you, and for you "street smart" only peeps here, the word fornication means having sex with someone you are not married to.

Did you mention the father of the child is in jail??? Sounds like quality people you are dealing with there.
My previous post pointed out this hypocrisy as well - too many men legitimize a woman's hordom - a sure way to failure!!!

One cannot be a hor and a Christian - this is a contradiction!!!
 

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It doesn't matter if a b!tch is a christian, buddist, hindu, muslim, jew, whatever...it all boils down to one thing. She got fvcked in the arse by some low life, cleaned his c*ck afterwards, swallowed 5 gallons of his c*m, and then got pregnant. Now she is looking for some chump to raise that bastard of a child.

Don't be the chump!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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