"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well My Ex Just Dropped A Bomb

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Gangster Of Love said:
Her Christian values didn't prevent her from fornicating with you and with the new guy she met after you, and for you "street smart" only peeps here, the word fornication means having sex with someone you are not married to.

Did you mention the father of the child is in jail??? Sounds like quality people you are dealing with there.
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Touche Touche

Dude don't waste your ****ing time! I'm sure you have your own problems and you don't need other problems.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Monster said:
Touche Touche

Dude don't waste your ****ing time! I'm sure you have your own problems and you don't need other problems.
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I already said I agree with you guys and am cutting her loose to let some poor chump pick up the slack.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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violator said:
...If anything, maybe I can convert this situation to a friends with benefits type of relationship. She is quite hot. She is 26 and I am 38. But her flaking at the last moment only makes me a little suspicious and wary.

What do you guys think?
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Is the poonani that good to merit the effort of sarging not just an ex, but an ex with a new baby? Good thing you decided to put this one where it belongs. C'mon, why did you even consider this in the first place?
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Her Christian values didn't prevent her from fornicating with you and with the new guy she met after you, and for you "street smart" only peeps here, the word fornication means having sex with someone you are not married to.

Did you mention the father of the child is in jail??? Sounds like quality people you are dealing with there.
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My previous post pointed out this hypocrisy as well - too many men legitimize a woman's hordom - a sure way to failure!!!

One cannot be a hor and a Christian - this is a contradiction!!!
 
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It doesn't matter if a b!tch is a christian, buddist, hindu, muslim, jew, whatever...it all boils down to one thing. She got fvcked in the arse by some low life, cleaned his c*ck afterwards, swallowed 5 gallons of his c*m, and then got pregnant. Now she is looking for some chump to raise that bastard of a child.

Don't be the chump!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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