"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, I went and saw the therapist today....

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bornyesterday said:
He needs guidance, he needs to talk, he needs to understand things.
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And here is another block. The guy only wants to vent about his problems. He is not willing to talk or listen, or do anything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It comes from confusion. I am stuck in this,and want out. And it's the whole feeling of everyone else has it all together,is happy,succesful,etc, while I am trudging along miserably,cyincal,and bitterly. Aren't we talking now? I have listened to so much,something that will give me a way out of this.
 
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CapedCrusader08 said:
It comes from confusion. I am stuck in this,and want out. And it's the whole feeling of everyone else has it all together,is happy,succesful,etc, while I am trudging along miserably,cyincal,and bitterly. Aren't we talking now? I have listened to so much,something that will give me a way out of this.
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You're hearing but you're not listening.

STOP POSTING CRAP. This forum is not your personal tampon.
 
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your free therapy starts when you do that

stop being a b1tch and do what your superior says
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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